I'm planning on going to Spain to teach English for a couple months. Is anyone familiar with this country? Any recommendations on what part of the country I should live? I'm not looking for the best city to DJ chicks, just where I can get the greatest experience.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Voy a Espana!
- Thread starter Berlex
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ya hablas un poco de espanol?
Many foreigners prefer the South, although the northern parts are what I lovemost.
However, it depends on what you want and what you're bringing with you. If you already know Spanish and want to improve your skills there, I'd not go to Barcelona or Madrid, these cities are full of foreigners, you'd have trouble meeting a Spaniard.
Do you know how to find jobs there, do you have numbers etc? If I were you, and it's about the experience, I'd travel a lot.
Nice cities to see: Barcelona, Salamanca, Santiago de Compostela, Granada and San Sebastian (Donostia in Basque). If you're going to Santiago, you could also head down south to Portugal. Porto and Lisbon are well worth a visit. And the beaches of the Algarve are the best.
Many foreigners prefer the South, although the northern parts are what I lovemost.
However, it depends on what you want and what you're bringing with you. If you already know Spanish and want to improve your skills there, I'd not go to Barcelona or Madrid, these cities are full of foreigners, you'd have trouble meeting a Spaniard.
Do you know how to find jobs there, do you have numbers etc? If I were you, and it's about the experience, I'd travel a lot.
Nice cities to see: Barcelona, Salamanca, Santiago de Compostela, Granada and San Sebastian (Donostia in Basque). If you're going to Santiago, you could also head down south to Portugal. Porto and Lisbon are well worth a visit. And the beaches of the Algarve are the best.
I can vouch for Donostia. Bilbao is where I live, it's not too exciting but the people are friendly. It's quite diverse, but not a lot of people speak any sort of decent english. You'll meet a lot of latin americans.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Yes, I get to choose among these regions:Gubby said:
Asturias
Ceuta y Melilla
Extremadura
La Rioja
Navarra
País Vasco
Aragón
Cantabria
Castilla la Mancha
Cataluña
Galicia
Islas Canarias
Andalucía
Castilla León
Islas Baleares
Madrid
Murcia
Valencia
I'd like to go somewhere English isn't widely spoken so I'd be forced to speak Spanish. I did study Spanish in college, I speak at about an intermediate level.
Let me tell you something...unlike popular believe...Spanish is not spoken everywhere in Spain. If you want to learn Spanish...then you have to focus on the areas of Spain that speaks Spanish. In addition to Spanish...there are places in which main language are Euskera, Gallego, Catalan, Valenciano, and a few others.Berlex said:
Remember...he wants to practice SPANISH (Castellano).Gubby said:
I personally liked Madrid. Outstanding subway system...the best (second only to the one in Hong Kong). And trust me, we have a great one in Washington D.C., but nothing like Madrid's.
I forgot about that. So I guess I should live within the red zones: http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/Image:Spain_languages.PNGLatinoman said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yes, but as far as I know you won't have any problem finding people who speak Spanish.Latinoman said:
In Euskadi here, practically EVERYONE speaks spanish and maybe 1/3 speak proper Euskera. (I don't speak Euskera and I never have any problems. Sometimes I need to know what's man and woman in basque so I can read the signs on the toilets. But if I end up pissing in the ladies' toilets, I tell them its their own ****ing fault for not putting the signs in Spanish).
I'm guessing that in the other places it's similar. Even if they speak their own language, it only makes sense to know Spanish.
Wouldn't he want to speak Spanish with the places that speak Spanish as a FIRST language? That way he practice the language with people that speak it 24-7. Not some part-time speaker. Also, that way he can read the newspaper is Spanish.
In Euskadi, despite their nationalist gesticulations, they DO speak spanish as a first language. A few I've known not, but in the big cities everyone's from somewhere else anyway so it's utterly impractical to force basque on everyone, not that they don't try. Yes, and you can read the newspaper in Spanish here - in basque as well, but spanish a little easier if anything.Latinoman said:
I have been living in Galicia for a little more than a year, you will have no problems speaking Spanish. Signs and other things are sometimes in Galician, but it is so similar to Spanish that you shouldn't have any trouble (but I speak Portuguese as well, so maybe you'll find it to be different).
Salamanca comes to mind when you want to speak the "best" Spanish. The city can be a bit dull, though. At least after a couple of months. You could start there, bring your Spanish to a good level and then go around travelling.
Salamanca comes to mind when you want to speak the "best" Spanish. The city can be a bit dull, though. At least after a couple of months. You could start there, bring your Spanish to a good level and then go around travelling.
Señor Fingers
Master Don Juan
+1 vote for Galicia.
Not a lick of English in those parts and the people are very warm and friendly.
The only downside for Galicia are the winters... you've never seen so much rain in your life! But it's a small price to pay for lush green hillsides and the best seafood you will ever eat in your life.
The cost of living is also really cheap. Rent is typically between 300-600 euro/month for your own crib.
La Coruña is one of my favorite cities (if you could even call it that). I really love that place and plan on moving there/buying a house in the not-so-distant future.
Not a lick of English in those parts and the people are very warm and friendly.
The only downside for Galicia are the winters... you've never seen so much rain in your life! But it's a small price to pay for lush green hillsides and the best seafood you will ever eat in your life.
The cost of living is also really cheap. Rent is typically between 300-600 euro/month for your own crib.
La Coruña is one of my favorite cities (if you could even call it that). I really love that place and plan on moving there/buying a house in the not-so-distant future.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.