Canadianpimpology
Senior Don Juan
Bad case of PMS guys...let her rot in the AFC world.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
*Sips coffee* Diddya get the memo? Greeeat. I'll just send you over another copy. Yeeah. *sips coffee*Originally posted by The Matrix: Reloaded
I don't know who told you that women were God's gift to men... but I didn't get that memo... sorry.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Well said. Don't let this ***** tell you otherwise, ANYONE.fragmentor said:donjuanita I KNOW how to get a girl. Taking your sort of advice in the past is what led me into becoming an AFC. Now I know better. The 'advice' your giving out isn't a help, it's a hindrance to every guy in here.
Umm.... NO! u mean like female president!? AHAHAHAHA :crackup:DonJuanita2 said:good tips you guys. hard as$ dudes like these Don Juan's tend to forget that there is more to the opposite sex than Fvcking.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
dont be rediculous. this thread probably has way more to offer than a whiney dreamx/viper thread.Zerotwoonenine said:All DJs in here, i think we have a problem here. I really think women should not be allowed on to our site(except lesbos) cause we are trying to improve our selves, i dont know the the fvck are they doing in our guys forum but i want to tell them to get out!!!
Calm down. Yelling out words like ***** **** **** **** monkey-balls isn't going to get your point across, especially if you are using them to insult people that have been on this "****ing forum" longer then you. And yes I do need a "****ing forum" to learn how to pick up women. I wasn't born with this knowledge. And no, all a girl wants isn't love. I learned that the hard way, but if I had started using this "****ing forum" sooner I wouldn't have had to go through that.donjuanita said:**** YOU, YOU ****ING BASTARD! Obviously, if you need a ****ing forum to find out how to get a girl, you have issues!!!!!!!! What "progress" are we hindering you from? The progress of getting no girls ever in your entire lifetime? You can choose to take this advice or not to. You can choose to remain girl-less ass-wiping bastards or finally get a life and leave this forum for good. So **** you for not appreciating our help.
donjuanita said:Girls don't want to be the ones asking you peoples out. Most girls are old-fashioned, traditional biznatches who will always wait around for the guys to do the work. So DO IT!!!
Try, TRY, TRRRYYYY to look at the girl's personality rather than her ass. For girls, it's not always about the hot guy. Girls will choose an okay-looking guy with an awesome personality over a hot guy with no substance. Personality always supplements in what the person lacks in looks.
Good luck,
the donjuanitas.
I second this recommendation. No More Mr. Nice Guy changed my life completely, helped me gain my self-respect, and turned me into a man. I ain't a dj yet, but thats why I come to this site.Rambo-Commando said:"yes donjuanitas, what you say is sooo true" thats what I would have said back in the days when I was an AFC Nice Guy, when I was confused to why oh why do I get dumped, even when I treat these girls so well and like them for their personality and not their looks.
yea, well I know why now, cuz this advice allways came from desperate girls who could'nt handle a Man, and who needed a chump to ride, a chump that would kiss their asses and never leave them.
I could bet you anything that donjuanitas has been dumped, and has'nt gotten C*ck in ages.
honestly guys, I really recomend the book: "no more Mr Nice Guy" by Glover, its a very effective book that explains exactly why people turn into nice guys and deeply analyses everything (for those who might be curious to know why)
and gives u solutions how to fix it. and once you read it, you would clearly underestand WHY NOBODY LIKES NICE GUYS. why what donjuanitas says is BS, DONT STOP being a DJ !
Commando
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.