"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Visit her at work?

dannyjames24

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Hey guys,

This is my first posting here....hopefully this isnt too dumb of a question.

I was at a 4th of July party on Sunday where I met a girl. We hit it off very well and pretty much hung out together the whole night chatting. There was definate chemistry between us, but unfortunately I didn't get the chance to close with the number or kiss or anything.

I ran upstairs for a moment and on my way back down a fight broke out. In the midst of all the chaos I decided it would be best just to get out of there before any cops arrived.

My question is....I know where this girl works. She's a hairdresser and told me the salon. So, I was thinking of calling up the salon and scheduling a haircut with her. Would that be weird? Or I was thinking I could stop by her house (the party was at her place)...but I dunno about that. I wouldnt appreciate random people stopping by my house.

Any ideas or suggestions for this one? Keep in mind there was a strong chemistry between us....just a missed opportunity.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey Danny, congrats on your first post...

It sounds like you've got a good opportunity here. I wouldn't schedule a haircut from this girl, cause you're not interested in a haircut at all. Just give the salon a call and ask to speak with the girl. Tell her you enjoyed the party and ask her out.

If she wants to meet you again, you can say 'Hey, I don't like to annoy you at work, what's your home number?'.
 

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Don't visit her @ work (yet).
maybe it's nice to surprise her when you hang out with her for some time already, but that's not the case now.

Like Beethoven said, call her at work and ask her to have lunch with her or meet up for a drink or something.

if there was/is chemistry between the 2 of you chanches are high she says yes!

good luck
 

dannyjames24

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Well, I'm glad I posted. Had I not, I probably would've just ended up going in there.

So I will call there tomorrow and see if I can get a hold of her. Wish me luck! Any other words of advice?
 

San

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Things will turn out just fine ;-)

there was chemistry between the 2 of you and woman love suprises and probably she will very much be suprised if you make a call to the barbershop :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You visit a girl at her workplace as a reward, after she's earned it.
 

squirrels

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Don't schedule a haircut with her, that's corny.

If you happen to be in the neighborhood of her job for whatever reason, swing by and just be legit with it.

"Hey, how're you doing? I lost track of you xxxx night after the ruckus and I was passing through so I thought I'd drop by, but it looks like you're pretty busy so why don't you give me your number and I'll call you sometime?"
 
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