"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Visit her at work?

dannyjames24

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Hey guys,

This is my first posting here....hopefully this isnt too dumb of a question.

I was at a 4th of July party on Sunday where I met a girl. We hit it off very well and pretty much hung out together the whole night chatting. There was definate chemistry between us, but unfortunately I didn't get the chance to close with the number or kiss or anything.

I ran upstairs for a moment and on my way back down a fight broke out. In the midst of all the chaos I decided it would be best just to get out of there before any cops arrived.

My question is....I know where this girl works. She's a hairdresser and told me the salon. So, I was thinking of calling up the salon and scheduling a haircut with her. Would that be weird? Or I was thinking I could stop by her house (the party was at her place)...but I dunno about that. I wouldnt appreciate random people stopping by my house.

Any ideas or suggestions for this one? Keep in mind there was a strong chemistry between us....just a missed opportunity.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Beethoven

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Hey Danny, congrats on your first post...

It sounds like you've got a good opportunity here. I wouldn't schedule a haircut from this girl, cause you're not interested in a haircut at all. Just give the salon a call and ask to speak with the girl. Tell her you enjoyed the party and ask her out.

If she wants to meet you again, you can say 'Hey, I don't like to annoy you at work, what's your home number?'.
 

San

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Don't visit her @ work (yet).
maybe it's nice to surprise her when you hang out with her for some time already, but that's not the case now.

Like Beethoven said, call her at work and ask her to have lunch with her or meet up for a drink or something.

if there was/is chemistry between the 2 of you chanches are high she says yes!

good luck
 

dannyjames24

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Well, I'm glad I posted. Had I not, I probably would've just ended up going in there.

So I will call there tomorrow and see if I can get a hold of her. Wish me luck! Any other words of advice?
 

San

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Things will turn out just fine ;-)

there was chemistry between the 2 of you and woman love suprises and probably she will very much be suprised if you make a call to the barbershop :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mercenary

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You visit a girl at her workplace as a reward, after she's earned it.
 

squirrels

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Don't schedule a haircut with her, that's corny.

If you happen to be in the neighborhood of her job for whatever reason, swing by and just be legit with it.

"Hey, how're you doing? I lost track of you xxxx night after the ruckus and I was passing through so I thought I'd drop by, but it looks like you're pretty busy so why don't you give me your number and I'll call you sometime?"
 
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