This girl i've been with for six months now says she loves me but she wont have sex with me. She tells me that I pressure her and that shes not going to have sex, "not right now" What could she be waiting for? I ask her and she says "I'm scared." It's been six months. How long does a virgin usually wait? I've had oral with her but she doesn't even want to give me that anymore. I guess she only gave it to me because I did it to her and she didn't want to seem selfish. But now, she tells me she doesn't want me to do it to her so she doesn't feel selfish and/or pressured. She says she understands my perspective, as a guy, but she doesn't need it herself. Could a woman not need sex? It seems like she just wants to cuddle. She even went as far as saying if I want to have sex that I could go find someone else. I'm guessing that she just wants to test me to find out if im with her only for sex, but i'm not sure she even likes me if she doesn't understand my need for sexual gratification. I love this girl but i'm not sure she really loves me if she's giving me this sh*t. When I give her gratification, my fingers don't get any pleasure from doing it. I do it to make her feel good.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
virgin
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
you're crazy.
Leave her.
Leave her.
Smooth Player 056
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shes probably a immature 17 yr old. I am 17 in HS and there are 2 types of girls: the mature and the immature and the poser mature ones. You probably have a immature one with the mindset of a 13 year old. Her parents have probably talked to her all her life about sex.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
aftershock
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I understand that 19 and 17 is illegal in the US, if you are there. As such I wouldn't recommend it - a random ho maybe, but if you f**k her and leave her she might get all hostile, and a woman crazed isn't a good thing.
If it is legal (hey, I like to add dislaimers
) then explain to her that it is selfish for you to pleasure her and not the other way around. If she still doesn't accept this leave her. She isn't worth your time.
You are 19 years old, at your sexual peak. You've wasted six months fingering a 17 year old when you could have been sarging. Either get some, or get out.
If it is legal (hey, I like to add dislaimers
) then explain to her that it is selfish for you to pleasure her and not the other way around. If she still doesn't accept this leave her. She isn't worth your time.You are 19 years old, at your sexual peak. You've wasted six months fingering a 17 year old when you could have been sarging. Either get some, or get out.
Fox800
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The age of consent is as low as 16 in some states, if I remember correctly.
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Well its obvious that you don’t know how to give a woman good "oral" otherwise she would be ripping her hair out and begging for more.
Ninja out
CONDE FRANCO
Don Juan
I thought you were in jail, libertine.Unregistered