This girl i've been with for six months now says she loves me but she wont have sex with me. She tells me that I pressure her and that shes not going to have sex, "not right now" What could she be waiting for? I ask her and she says "I'm scared." It's been six months. How long does a virgin usually wait? I've had oral with her but she doesn't even want to give me that anymore. I guess she only gave it to me because I did it to her and she didn't want to seem selfish. But now, she tells me she doesn't want me to do it to her so she doesn't feel selfish and/or pressured. She says she understands my perspective, as a guy, but she doesn't need it herself. Could a woman not need sex? It seems like she just wants to cuddle. She even went as far as saying if I want to have sex that I could go find someone else. I'm guessing that she just wants to test me to find out if im with her only for sex, but i'm not sure she even likes me if she doesn't understand my need for sexual gratification. I love this girl but i'm not sure she really loves me if she's giving me this sh*t. When I give her gratification, my fingers don't get any pleasure from doing it. I do it to make her feel good.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
virgin
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Big Eee Zee
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you're crazy.
Leave her.
Leave her.
Smooth Player 056
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shes probably a immature 17 yr old. I am 17 in HS and there are 2 types of girls: the mature and the immature and the poser mature ones. You probably have a immature one with the mindset of a 13 year old. Her parents have probably talked to her all her life about sex.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
aftershock
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I understand that 19 and 17 is illegal in the US, if you are there. As such I wouldn't recommend it - a random ho maybe, but if you f**k her and leave her she might get all hostile, and a woman crazed isn't a good thing.
If it is legal (hey, I like to add dislaimers
) then explain to her that it is selfish for you to pleasure her and not the other way around. If she still doesn't accept this leave her. She isn't worth your time.
You are 19 years old, at your sexual peak. You've wasted six months fingering a 17 year old when you could have been sarging. Either get some, or get out.
If it is legal (hey, I like to add dislaimers
) then explain to her that it is selfish for you to pleasure her and not the other way around. If she still doesn't accept this leave her. She isn't worth your time.You are 19 years old, at your sexual peak. You've wasted six months fingering a 17 year old when you could have been sarging. Either get some, or get out.
Fox800
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The age of consent is as low as 16 in some states, if I remember correctly.
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Well its obvious that you don’t know how to give a woman good "oral" otherwise she would be ripping her hair out and begging for more.
Ninja out
CONDE FRANCO
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I thought you were in jail, libertine.Unregistered