This girl i've been with for six months now says she loves me but she wont have sex with me. She tells me that I pressure her and that shes not going to have sex, "not right now" What could she be waiting for? I ask her and she says "I'm scared." It's been six months. How long does a virgin usually wait? I've had oral with her but she doesn't even want to give me that anymore. I guess she only gave it to me because I did it to her and she didn't want to seem selfish. But now, she tells me she doesn't want me to do it to her so she doesn't feel selfish and/or pressured. She says she understands my perspective, as a guy, but she doesn't need it herself. Could a woman not need sex? It seems like she just wants to cuddle. She even went as far as saying if I want to have sex that I could go find someone else. I'm guessing that she just wants to test me to find out if im with her only for sex, but i'm not sure she even likes me if she doesn't understand my need for sexual gratification. I love this girl but i'm not sure she really loves me if she's giving me this sh*t. When I give her gratification, my fingers don't get any pleasure from doing it. I do it to make her feel good.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
virgin
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Big Eee Zee
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you're crazy.
Leave her.
Leave her.
Smooth Player 056
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shes probably a immature 17 yr old. I am 17 in HS and there are 2 types of girls: the mature and the immature and the poser mature ones. You probably have a immature one with the mindset of a 13 year old. Her parents have probably talked to her all her life about sex.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
aftershock
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I understand that 19 and 17 is illegal in the US, if you are there. As such I wouldn't recommend it - a random ho maybe, but if you f**k her and leave her she might get all hostile, and a woman crazed isn't a good thing.
If it is legal (hey, I like to add dislaimers
) then explain to her that it is selfish for you to pleasure her and not the other way around. If she still doesn't accept this leave her. She isn't worth your time.
You are 19 years old, at your sexual peak. You've wasted six months fingering a 17 year old when you could have been sarging. Either get some, or get out.
If it is legal (hey, I like to add dislaimers
) then explain to her that it is selfish for you to pleasure her and not the other way around. If she still doesn't accept this leave her. She isn't worth your time.You are 19 years old, at your sexual peak. You've wasted six months fingering a 17 year old when you could have been sarging. Either get some, or get out.
Fox800
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The age of consent is as low as 16 in some states, if I remember correctly.
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Well its obvious that you don’t know how to give a woman good "oral" otherwise she would be ripping her hair out and begging for more.
Ninja out
CONDE FRANCO
Don Juan
I thought you were in jail, libertine.Unregistered