This girl i've been with for six months now says she loves me but she wont have sex with me. She tells me that I pressure her and that shes not going to have sex, "not right now" What could she be waiting for? I ask her and she says "I'm scared." It's been six months. How long does a virgin usually wait? I've had oral with her but she doesn't even want to give me that anymore. I guess she only gave it to me because I did it to her and she didn't want to seem selfish. But now, she tells me she doesn't want me to do it to her so she doesn't feel selfish and/or pressured. She says she understands my perspective, as a guy, but she doesn't need it herself. Could a woman not need sex? It seems like she just wants to cuddle. She even went as far as saying if I want to have sex that I could go find someone else. I'm guessing that she just wants to test me to find out if im with her only for sex, but i'm not sure she even likes me if she doesn't understand my need for sexual gratification. I love this girl but i'm not sure she really loves me if she's giving me this sh*t. When I give her gratification, my fingers don't get any pleasure from doing it. I do it to make her feel good.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
virgin
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
you're crazy.
Leave her.
Leave her.
Smooth Player 056
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shes probably a immature 17 yr old. I am 17 in HS and there are 2 types of girls: the mature and the immature and the poser mature ones. You probably have a immature one with the mindset of a 13 year old. Her parents have probably talked to her all her life about sex.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
aftershock
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I understand that 19 and 17 is illegal in the US, if you are there. As such I wouldn't recommend it - a random ho maybe, but if you f**k her and leave her she might get all hostile, and a woman crazed isn't a good thing.
If it is legal (hey, I like to add dislaimers
) then explain to her that it is selfish for you to pleasure her and not the other way around. If she still doesn't accept this leave her. She isn't worth your time.
You are 19 years old, at your sexual peak. You've wasted six months fingering a 17 year old when you could have been sarging. Either get some, or get out.
If it is legal (hey, I like to add dislaimers
) then explain to her that it is selfish for you to pleasure her and not the other way around. If she still doesn't accept this leave her. She isn't worth your time.You are 19 years old, at your sexual peak. You've wasted six months fingering a 17 year old when you could have been sarging. Either get some, or get out.
Fox800
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The age of consent is as low as 16 in some states, if I remember correctly.
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Well its obvious that you don’t know how to give a woman good "oral" otherwise she would be ripping her hair out and begging for more.
Ninja out
CONDE FRANCO
Don Juan
I thought you were in jail, libertine.Unregistered