Thatfeel21
Senior Don Juan
Whats worse? Being a virgin and dying to get pu$$y or having had pu$$y before and dying to get it again?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Virgin or in a drought
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I know what you are getting at but it's not the same thing.sosilky said:
Once a man gets his first taste of sex he begins to crave it. I haven't gotten pussy in over a year and it's all I think about, constantly wondering when I'm going to get my next hit. In other words, sex is a drug. The worlds best and most natural drug. Virgins have never tried the drug so they are not addicted to it.
Speaking of love, it is not a drug to men. It is an experince of life. I have never been in love and I know that I'm missing out on a part of life. I don't know what love truly is but I know what it is not.
MooseGod
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You know what they say, it's better to have loved and lost than to have paid for it and realized it's overrated. 
DonJuanit0
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Well certainly is better to have had one experienc rather than not having one! Think yourselves when you were little boys and were seeing on tv all those chicks! You were like omfg I need to f*ck I need to have sex bla bla bla! Ok now at least for me! I had a great sex life till 4 months from now! It's been 4 months since my last f*ck but I still believe I couldn't live with the damn Question! How will sex be?!?
LostAndConfused
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What's worse than both of those two combined?
A virgin who has wacked off before.
A virgin who has wacked off before.
ArtVandelay
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"What's worse than both of those two combined?"
A virgin who owns the fleshlight.
A virgin who owns the fleshlight.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ArtVandelay
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For the guys who say it's worse when you've already had sex, how can it be if you're a virgin and all you think about, 99% of the day, no matter what you're doing, is women, tits, ass, p*ssy and sex? I go to sleep and have sex with women. I wake up and envision there being 3 naked women: one blonde, one brunette, one redhead in front of my bed. I watch a tv show or movie and pick out the hottest girl and daydream about doing the no-pants dance with her. I don't see how it can be any worse after.
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Wow, and I thought I had a high sex drive.ArtVandelay said:
I'd say its worse if had sex once or twice and are in a long drought. Being a virgin could mean that you are exta extra picky and will only give your magic stick to a supermodel or of the like. I almost did it for the first time a few weeks ago with this good looking Asian girl that so many guys have been after. But now, I'm glad I didn't give her the satisfaction of being my first!!
ArtVandelay
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I'm picky, but not looking for supermodels. I mean, Gillian Anderson and Winona Ryder in their prime were above average looking but not playboy bunnies.
Thatfeel21
Senior Don Juan
all true answers, but think about this...
once your with a girl in a situation to fcuk, itd be worse to be a virgin at that point, cuz you wouldnt really know what the hell to do, ppl whove had it know sex is nothing like the movies or porn
once your with a girl in a situation to fcuk, itd be worse to be a virgin at that point, cuz you wouldnt really know what the hell to do, ppl whove had it know sex is nothing like the movies or porn
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.