"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Virgin or in a drought

Complete Virgin or Devastating drought?


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Thatfeel21

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Whats worse? Being a virgin and dying to get pu$$y or having had pu$$y before and dying to get it again?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BlakeW5

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Droughts. Virgins don't know what they're missing
 

lordson

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exactly. once you have it, its way worse craving it and not being able to get it

rather than wanting something you've never experinced
 

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sounds like when people say is it better to loved and lost then to never have loved at all. Or is it better to be rich and lose the money or never be rich.
 

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Drought is better, you know that you are not missing anything special.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maxtro

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sosilky said:
sounds like when people say is it better to loved and lost then to never have loved at all. Or is it better to be rich and lose the money or never be rich.
I know what you are getting at but it's not the same thing.

Once a man gets his first taste of sex he begins to crave it. I haven't gotten pussy in over a year and it's all I think about, constantly wondering when I'm going to get my next hit. In other words, sex is a drug. The worlds best and most natural drug. Virgins have never tried the drug so they are not addicted to it.

Speaking of love, it is not a drug to men. It is an experince of life. I have never been in love and I know that I'm missing out on a part of life. I don't know what love truly is but I know what it is not.
 

DonJuanit0

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Well certainly is better to have had one experienc rather than not having one! Think yourselves when you were little boys and were seeing on tv all those chicks! You were like omfg I need to f*ck I need to have sex bla bla bla! Ok now at least for me! I had a great sex life till 4 months from now! It's been 4 months since my last f*ck but I still believe I couldn't live with the damn Question! How will sex be?!?
 

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"What's worse than both of those two combined?"

A virgin who owns the fleshlight.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Gubby

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The only thing that's bad is not having sex. Whether it's happened to you before or not is immaterial.
 

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For the guys who say it's worse when you've already had sex, how can it be if you're a virgin and all you think about, 99% of the day, no matter what you're doing, is women, tits, ass, p*ssy and sex? I go to sleep and have sex with women. I wake up and envision there being 3 naked women: one blonde, one brunette, one redhead in front of my bed. I watch a tv show or movie and pick out the hottest girl and daydream about doing the no-pants dance with her. I don't see how it can be any worse after.
 
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DonJuan11

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ArtVandelay said:
For the guys who say it's worse when you've already had sex, how can it be if you're a virgin and all you think about, 99% of the day, no matter what you're doing, is women, tits, ass, p*ssy and sex? I go to sleep and have sex with women. I wake up and envision there being 3 naked women: one blonde, one brunette, one redhead in front of my bed. I watch a tv show or movie and pick out the hottest girl and daydream about doing the no-pants dance with her.
Wow, and I thought I had a high sex drive.

I'd say its worse if had sex once or twice and are in a long drought. Being a virgin could mean that you are exta extra picky and will only give your magic stick to a supermodel or of the like. I almost did it for the first time a few weeks ago with this good looking Asian girl that so many guys have been after. But now, I'm glad I didn't give her the satisfaction of being my first!!
 

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I'm picky, but not looking for supermodels. I mean, Gillian Anderson and Winona Ryder in their prime were above average looking but not playboy bunnies.
 

Thatfeel21

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all true answers, but think about this...
once your with a girl in a situation to fcuk, itd be worse to be a virgin at that point, cuz you wouldnt really know what the hell to do, ppl whove had it know sex is nothing like the movies or porn
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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