Thatfeel21
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Whats worse? Being a virgin and dying to get pu$$y or having had pu$$y before and dying to get it again?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Virgin or in a drought
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I know what you are getting at but it's not the same thing.sosilky said:
Once a man gets his first taste of sex he begins to crave it. I haven't gotten pussy in over a year and it's all I think about, constantly wondering when I'm going to get my next hit. In other words, sex is a drug. The worlds best and most natural drug. Virgins have never tried the drug so they are not addicted to it.
Speaking of love, it is not a drug to men. It is an experince of life. I have never been in love and I know that I'm missing out on a part of life. I don't know what love truly is but I know what it is not.
MooseGod
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You know what they say, it's better to have loved and lost than to have paid for it and realized it's overrated. 
DonJuanit0
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Well certainly is better to have had one experienc rather than not having one! Think yourselves when you were little boys and were seeing on tv all those chicks! You were like omfg I need to f*ck I need to have sex bla bla bla! Ok now at least for me! I had a great sex life till 4 months from now! It's been 4 months since my last f*ck but I still believe I couldn't live with the damn Question! How will sex be?!?
LostAndConfused
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What's worse than both of those two combined?
A virgin who has wacked off before.
A virgin who has wacked off before.
ArtVandelay
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"What's worse than both of those two combined?"
A virgin who owns the fleshlight.
A virgin who owns the fleshlight.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ArtVandelay
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For the guys who say it's worse when you've already had sex, how can it be if you're a virgin and all you think about, 99% of the day, no matter what you're doing, is women, tits, ass, p*ssy and sex? I go to sleep and have sex with women. I wake up and envision there being 3 naked women: one blonde, one brunette, one redhead in front of my bed. I watch a tv show or movie and pick out the hottest girl and daydream about doing the no-pants dance with her. I don't see how it can be any worse after.
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Wow, and I thought I had a high sex drive.ArtVandelay said:
I'd say its worse if had sex once or twice and are in a long drought. Being a virgin could mean that you are exta extra picky and will only give your magic stick to a supermodel or of the like. I almost did it for the first time a few weeks ago with this good looking Asian girl that so many guys have been after. But now, I'm glad I didn't give her the satisfaction of being my first!!
ArtVandelay
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I'm picky, but not looking for supermodels. I mean, Gillian Anderson and Winona Ryder in their prime were above average looking but not playboy bunnies.
Thatfeel21
Senior Don Juan
all true answers, but think about this...
once your with a girl in a situation to fcuk, itd be worse to be a virgin at that point, cuz you wouldnt really know what the hell to do, ppl whove had it know sex is nothing like the movies or porn
once your with a girl in a situation to fcuk, itd be worse to be a virgin at that point, cuz you wouldnt really know what the hell to do, ppl whove had it know sex is nothing like the movies or porn
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.