Thatfeel21
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Whats worse? Being a virgin and dying to get pu$$y or having had pu$$y before and dying to get it again?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I know what you are getting at but it's not the same thing.sosilky said:
Once a man gets his first taste of sex he begins to crave it. I haven't gotten pussy in over a year and it's all I think about, constantly wondering when I'm going to get my next hit. In other words, sex is a drug. The worlds best and most natural drug. Virgins have never tried the drug so they are not addicted to it.
Speaking of love, it is not a drug to men. It is an experince of life. I have never been in love and I know that I'm missing out on a part of life. I don't know what love truly is but I know what it is not.
MooseGod
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You know what they say, it's better to have loved and lost than to have paid for it and realized it's overrated. 
DonJuanit0
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Well certainly is better to have had one experienc rather than not having one! Think yourselves when you were little boys and were seeing on tv all those chicks! You were like omfg I need to f*ck I need to have sex bla bla bla! Ok now at least for me! I had a great sex life till 4 months from now! It's been 4 months since my last f*ck but I still believe I couldn't live with the damn Question! How will sex be?!?
LostAndConfused
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What's worse than both of those two combined?
A virgin who has wacked off before.
A virgin who has wacked off before.
ArtVandelay
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"What's worse than both of those two combined?"
A virgin who owns the fleshlight.
A virgin who owns the fleshlight.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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For the guys who say it's worse when you've already had sex, how can it be if you're a virgin and all you think about, 99% of the day, no matter what you're doing, is women, tits, ass, p*ssy and sex? I go to sleep and have sex with women. I wake up and envision there being 3 naked women: one blonde, one brunette, one redhead in front of my bed. I watch a tv show or movie and pick out the hottest girl and daydream about doing the no-pants dance with her. I don't see how it can be any worse after.
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Wow, and I thought I had a high sex drive.ArtVandelay said:
I'd say its worse if had sex once or twice and are in a long drought. Being a virgin could mean that you are exta extra picky and will only give your magic stick to a supermodel or of the like. I almost did it for the first time a few weeks ago with this good looking Asian girl that so many guys have been after. But now, I'm glad I didn't give her the satisfaction of being my first!!
ArtVandelay
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I'm picky, but not looking for supermodels. I mean, Gillian Anderson and Winona Ryder in their prime were above average looking but not playboy bunnies.
Thatfeel21
Senior Don Juan
all true answers, but think about this...
once your with a girl in a situation to fcuk, itd be worse to be a virgin at that point, cuz you wouldnt really know what the hell to do, ppl whove had it know sex is nothing like the movies or porn
once your with a girl in a situation to fcuk, itd be worse to be a virgin at that point, cuz you wouldnt really know what the hell to do, ppl whove had it know sex is nothing like the movies or porn
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.