"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Virgin o no? (Check my espanol!)

Self-Explanatory. NO JOKE ANSWERS PLEASE!

  • 14-18 Virgin

    Votes: 15 19.7%

  • 14-18 Non-Virgin

    Votes: 10 13.2%

  • 19-24 Virgin

    Votes: 11 14.5%

  • 19-24 Non-Virgin

    Votes: 23 30.3%

  • 25-35 Virgin

    Votes: 2 2.6%

  • 25-35 Non-Virgin

    Votes: 12 15.8%

  • 36+ Virgin

    Votes: 1 1.3%

  • 36+ Non-Virgin

    Votes: 2 2.6%
  • Total voters
    76
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OK! Let's clear the air and see what the breakdown of the board is. As always, answers are completely anonymous, so do the ol' board a favor be honest eh? Cool :up:

Without further ado: :crazy:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Question Rex.. why is this important?
 
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Because it has been a recent point of discussion on this discussion board. Self-Explanatory me thinks.
 
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Rex Man said:
Because it has been a recent point of discussion on this discussion board. Self-Explanatory me thinks.
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good thread, it will help clear up my prior thread of whether most virgins are in high school or not
 
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Wow I'm in the 25 to 35 bracket. That makes me feel old and I'm turning 27 in a few months.

According to my poll, 30% of the members on here are virgins. I am interested in seeing how the ages of virgins break down. I think that most virgins are between 18 and 24. I realize that it covers two brackets. If there are people who are over 25 and still a virgin then something is wrong. The only 25+ that comes to mind is our resident Jedi.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is that even a question? DUH! More virgins are going to be in high school.
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Even though the sample is still quite small, most virgins (on this site) are 19-24. That does make very good sense. They have no clue why they can't get girls and they figure that somebody their age should be having girls by now. And so they come here.
 
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Yup, Maxtro that's what I though when I looked at the results, even though we'll have to wait a bit longer to get a large enough sample population.

I think this thread (among others) helps to us to get a general feel of the board's experience and see where people are coming from. That can only better the forum, not worsen it. (That's obviously for the critics)
 
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I lost my virginity when I was 18

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah, seventy votes isn't enough although we can see some trends emerging
 
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