"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Virgin o no? (Check my espanol!)
- Thread starter Rex Man
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MotownMack
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positivity_injection
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Rex Man said:
good thread, it will help clear up my prior thread of whether most virgins are in high school or not
Maxtro
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According to my poll, 30% of the members on here are virgins. I am interested in seeing how the ages of virgins break down. I think that most virgins are between 18 and 24. I realize that it covers two brackets. If there are people who are over 25 and still a virgin then something is wrong. The only 25+ that comes to mind is our resident Jedi.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
LostAndConfused
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Is that even a question? DUH! More virgins are going to be in high school.positivity_injection said:
Maxtro
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Even though the sample is still quite small, most virgins (on this site) are 19-24. That does make very good sense. They have no clue why they can't get girls and they figure that somebody their age should be having girls by now. And so they come here.LostAndConfused said:
I think this thread (among others) helps to us to get a general feel of the board's experience and see where people are coming from. That can only better the forum, not worsen it. (That's obviously for the critics)
comic_relief
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Maxtro
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