"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Virgin o no? (Check my espanol!)
- Thread starter Rex Man
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MotownMack
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Rex Man said:
good thread, it will help clear up my prior thread of whether most virgins are in high school or not
Maxtro
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According to my poll, 30% of the members on here are virgins. I am interested in seeing how the ages of virgins break down. I think that most virgins are between 18 and 24. I realize that it covers two brackets. If there are people who are over 25 and still a virgin then something is wrong. The only 25+ that comes to mind is our resident Jedi.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LostAndConfused
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Is that even a question? DUH! More virgins are going to be in high school.positivity_injection said:
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Even though the sample is still quite small, most virgins (on this site) are 19-24. That does make very good sense. They have no clue why they can't get girls and they figure that somebody their age should be having girls by now. And so they come here.LostAndConfused said:
I think this thread (among others) helps to us to get a general feel of the board's experience and see where people are coming from. That can only better the forum, not worsen it. (That's obviously for the critics)
comic_relief
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Maxtro
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