"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Virgin o no? (Check my espanol!)

Self-Explanatory. NO JOKE ANSWERS PLEASE!

  • 14-18 Virgin

    Votes: 15 19.7%
  • 14-18 Non-Virgin

    Votes: 10 13.2%
  • 19-24 Virgin

    Votes: 11 14.5%
  • 19-24 Non-Virgin

    Votes: 23 30.3%
  • 25-35 Virgin

    Votes: 2 2.6%
  • 25-35 Non-Virgin

    Votes: 12 15.8%
  • 36+ Virgin

    Votes: 1 1.3%
  • 36+ Non-Virgin

    Votes: 2 2.6%

  • Total voters
    76

Rex Man

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OK! Let's clear the air and see what the breakdown of the board is. As always, answers are completely anonymous, so do the ol' board a favor be honest eh? Cool :up:

Without further ado: :crazy:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Question Rex.. why is this important?
 

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Because it has been a recent point of discussion on this discussion board. Self-Explanatory me thinks.
 
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Rex Man said:
Because it has been a recent point of discussion on this discussion board. Self-Explanatory me thinks.

good thread, it will help clear up my prior thread of whether most virgins are in high school or not
 

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Wow I'm in the 25 to 35 bracket. That makes me feel old and I'm turning 27 in a few months.

According to my poll, 30% of the members on here are virgins. I am interested in seeing how the ages of virgins break down. I think that most virgins are between 18 and 24. I realize that it covers two brackets. If there are people who are over 25 and still a virgin then something is wrong. The only 25+ that comes to mind is our resident Jedi.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LostAndConfused said:
Is that even a question? DUH! More virgins are going to be in high school.
Even though the sample is still quite small, most virgins (on this site) are 19-24. That does make very good sense. They have no clue why they can't get girls and they figure that somebody their age should be having girls by now. And so they come here.
 

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Yup, Maxtro that's what I though when I looked at the results, even though we'll have to wait a bit longer to get a large enough sample population.

I think this thread (among others) helps to us to get a general feel of the board's experience and see where people are coming from. That can only better the forum, not worsen it. (That's obviously for the critics)
 

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I lost my virginity when I was 18

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah, seventy votes isn't enough although we can see some trends emerging
 
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