"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Virgin chick didn't put out for 2.5-year boyfriend, sexes colleague within week of him moving on

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What a hassle
How is a nice big photo op day where you invite family and friends and make a big social splash followed by an all expense paid vacation a hassle? It is all fun. Just mean the vows.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Damn son. That could've been me.

I was in an LTR for 4 years with no sex
(for 2) because she wasn't ready ('religious'). I was talking daily blue pill multivitamins back then and knew from the start she was waiting until marriage. That changed one day, thankfully. And I'm out of the relationship now obviously, thankfully.

Call me Neo.
 

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He would still lose whether 3 dates or 2.5 years. He still would not have her unless he married and found out.
He should have never "had" her. Had he allowed 3-4 meetups tops and bailed without physical affection hed been straight.
 

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He should have never "had" her. Had he allowed 3-4 meetups tops and bailed without physical affection hed been straight.
Well now he definitely can't. At least she didn't sleep with a Black guy or he'd really be fuming.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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