"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Virgin chick didn't put out for 2.5-year boyfriend, sexes colleague within week of him moving on
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
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mindstate.
my opinion: Obviously, she just had this guy as a close orbiter.
Dumps and distance effect mindstate. Players use these to manipulate emotions. In his circumstance they had a norm of her not putting out.
I couldnt guarantee new guy was "hotter". Maybe old guy was pushing for it and new guy didnt care either way.
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What a GIANT f*cking kick in the balls to that guy and hopefully a learning lesson. I mean, could that be more of a gut punch to this guy? I mean seriously. He wasted almost 3 years with this chick, 3 f*cking years!!!! Imagine how he could be chasing the best version of himself, so he could have abundance and he wasted his time with this nitwit. And what does she try to do when he expresses his anger, hurt and disappointment? She blames and shifts the focus back to him and justifies he slutty behavior by blaming him for making her feel "low."
my opinion: Obviously, she just had this guy as a close orbiter.
This is the state of the sisterhood gentlemen and why none of you should ever, unless under the most unbelievable circumstances, enter into any sort of serious relationship. They are simply not worth it. Take it from a guy who's f*cked up twice as extra ammunition to read what I'm saying and heed this advice.
THIS, THIS is a warning to all guys. What was it that I heard the other day, two things about women that has really stuck with me and I will be using to apply in my life moving forward:
1. If she says she feels something, add right now to the end
2. If she won't do something, add with you at the end.
mrgoodstuff
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This was a reason why the 3 date rule ( 2 dates on SS ) was so imperative. Plus bytches you fvck with should always be sexually accessible to you. He got what he should get.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That's cold man, c'mon. He was trying to be what he thought was honorable and noble. You can't blame a guy for trying to be things that he was raised to be. I have real empathy for this guy and can only hope that he has learned his lesson.
mrgoodstuff
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We cant be honorable and noble in this dating market. We need to be hard on our friends.
Agreed but honestly, I don't need anyone to be hard on me, I'm my own worst critic. I think that hurts my confidence at times and at least part of what has made me susceptible to my own situation and trials. Good to have people that can build you up too and give you advice when necessary.
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There's no honor beating himself over a girl, sex deprivation is an emotional abuse and manipulation used by insane girl for millenia, well Disney film for me tonight hahahaha
mrgoodstuff
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Who has been successful in reversing this position?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Hahahaha, yeah mate got to learn from the Prince charming himself, tangled perhaps? Lol
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Ex must wanna rope himself!!
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It doesn't have to be more good looking than her ex, a dwarf should be enought for emotionally unstable women.no healthy female would lose her virginity over a night after 2 weeks breakup. Her ex was serving a 2.5 years being an emotional tampons.
Close orbiter would fit in well.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Who Dares Win
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There are so many wrong things in all of this that I dont even know if its true or a trolling.
mrgoodstuff
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She was mentioning something about the guy she gave it up to didnt and couldnt have a claim to her body.... Perhaps she felt if she gave it to her man he WOULD have a claim to her body. Feminists are real big on not letting a man thinks he owns her or has exclusive access.
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Obviously we all would! (assuming she was into us/we had a shot)
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.