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Master Don Juan
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This is just, wow, it gets pretty good ngl
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You missed one:Once the emotional connection is over on the woman’s side, it is game over. Nothing can bring it back.
Debating about it is a complete waste of time.
There are lots of signs the emotional connection is going away or completely gone. Unfortunately, these signs are not inherently obvious to most men. When the signs occur, many men think the relationship is improving.
Example Signs:
In most cases, when the warning signs occur, the man has done a poor job of leading his woman and she has lost all respect for him because of it.
- parter stops complaining/caring about issues they have always been concerned about.
- partner takes up gardening and is always outside.
- partner takes up running, biking, or triathlons and spends all her free time with this activity, especially with a group of people.
- big one: partner gets implants. Often, it’s already over at the time the surgery is scheduled.
This is BIOLOGY. Never try to fight it or debate it. Go with it. Use it to your continual advantage.
As soon as the emotional connection is gone, immediately move on.
Learn from your experiences and use them to your advantage in the next relationship.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The problem is, it makes no sense from a guys perspective. Our brains are simply wired differently so we think more logically.Once the emotional connection is over on the woman’s side, it is game over. Nothing can bring it back.
The man gets complacent thats why you always need to be on your toes. The game never ends.In most cases, when the warning signs occur, the man has done a poor job of leading his woman and she has lost all respect for him because of it.
Just look at her body language, she isn't even sorry for what she did. She feels zero guilt, the tone is also a dead giveaway. The guy is getting very emotional while she has sounds like she couldn't care less.Thats very common. And its sad... I've experienced situations very similar than that... Lying about cheating or other thing, the pattern is the same. Try to blame you, guilt inversion and using the vulnerable crying woman to get in your emotions.
Makes sense man! And I think this is more common than we know.Just look at her body language, she isn't even sorry for what she did. She feels zero guilt, the tone is also a dead giveaway. The guy is getting very emotional while she has sounds like she couldn't care less.
She even laughs and smirks when he brings up her cheating and the fact that she "never cared for anyone".
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While it may seem like they won in the short term, they really suffer the most in the long term. This whole cheating thing won’t last, this other guy will eventually boot her and likely in a brutal way. Then like a domino affect her life will fall apart. I’ve seen it a gazillion times, and the husband or boyfriend goes on to bigger and better things. Karma comes after women hard. You have no idea how many flat broke women in their 30’s are out there. Tons!Makes sense man! And I think this is more common than we know.
I feel really hopeless with those things... Cause I could never be so cold like that. When I've made mistakes in my life and I recognized it I really felt bad and suffered. Wasn't that normal at least?
It's like cheating and doing those ridiculous stuffs are so normal for them, so they didn't even care. How many cases similar than that I've saw during my life.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Maybe not in the short term it won’t, but in the long run it will. I see this all the time. This woman is planning her hop back on the carousel and she won’t last long, she won’t keep up with the fitness either and she’s going to end up alone. Meanwhile your friend will get to enjoy his martinis in peace and she will be the one in counseling soon, not him. Women can not see ahead or plan for the future, they just can’t. They live in today, not months or years from now. That’s not a wise plan when you’re an adult.My buddy is probably going to have his world rocked shortly.
-Wife suddenly dropped 25lbs
-She’s started running
-Getting work done on her face
-Is on him about his drinking ( he has two martinis a night) and she made him go to counseling.
- complains about his diet and fitness
It’s not going to end well
actressesThats very common. And its sad... I've experienced situations very similar than that... Lying about cheating or other thing, the pattern is the same. Try to blame you, guilt inversion and using the vulnerable crying woman to get in your emotions.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
when he ask why she do that, all respect has gone for him, what i see is a MAN seeking closure with a women. SMHNever discuss this stuff with them...they don't care and don't feel guilty about it....just move on
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.