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Master Don Juan
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This is just, wow, it gets pretty good ngl
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You missed one:Once the emotional connection is over on the woman’s side, it is game over. Nothing can bring it back.
Debating about it is a complete waste of time.
There are lots of signs the emotional connection is going away or completely gone. Unfortunately, these signs are not inherently obvious to most men. When the signs occur, many men think the relationship is improving.
Example Signs:
In most cases, when the warning signs occur, the man has done a poor job of leading his woman and she has lost all respect for him because of it.
- parter stops complaining/caring about issues they have always been concerned about.
- partner takes up gardening and is always outside.
- partner takes up running, biking, or triathlons and spends all her free time with this activity, especially with a group of people.
- big one: partner gets implants. Often, it’s already over at the time the surgery is scheduled.
This is BIOLOGY. Never try to fight it or debate it. Go with it. Use it to your continual advantage.
As soon as the emotional connection is gone, immediately move on.
Learn from your experiences and use them to your advantage in the next relationship.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The problem is, it makes no sense from a guys perspective. Our brains are simply wired differently so we think more logically.Once the emotional connection is over on the woman’s side, it is game over. Nothing can bring it back.
The man gets complacent thats why you always need to be on your toes. The game never ends.In most cases, when the warning signs occur, the man has done a poor job of leading his woman and she has lost all respect for him because of it.
Just look at her body language, she isn't even sorry for what she did. She feels zero guilt, the tone is also a dead giveaway. The guy is getting very emotional while she has sounds like she couldn't care less.Thats very common. And its sad... I've experienced situations very similar than that... Lying about cheating or other thing, the pattern is the same. Try to blame you, guilt inversion and using the vulnerable crying woman to get in your emotions.
Makes sense man! And I think this is more common than we know.Just look at her body language, she isn't even sorry for what she did. She feels zero guilt, the tone is also a dead giveaway. The guy is getting very emotional while she has sounds like she couldn't care less.
She even laughs and smirks when he brings up her cheating and the fact that she "never cared for anyone".
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While it may seem like they won in the short term, they really suffer the most in the long term. This whole cheating thing won’t last, this other guy will eventually boot her and likely in a brutal way. Then like a domino affect her life will fall apart. I’ve seen it a gazillion times, and the husband or boyfriend goes on to bigger and better things. Karma comes after women hard. You have no idea how many flat broke women in their 30’s are out there. Tons!Makes sense man! And I think this is more common than we know.
I feel really hopeless with those things... Cause I could never be so cold like that. When I've made mistakes in my life and I recognized it I really felt bad and suffered. Wasn't that normal at least?
It's like cheating and doing those ridiculous stuffs are so normal for them, so they didn't even care. How many cases similar than that I've saw during my life.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Maybe not in the short term it won’t, but in the long run it will. I see this all the time. This woman is planning her hop back on the carousel and she won’t last long, she won’t keep up with the fitness either and she’s going to end up alone. Meanwhile your friend will get to enjoy his martinis in peace and she will be the one in counseling soon, not him. Women can not see ahead or plan for the future, they just can’t. They live in today, not months or years from now. That’s not a wise plan when you’re an adult.My buddy is probably going to have his world rocked shortly.
-Wife suddenly dropped 25lbs
-She’s started running
-Getting work done on her face
-Is on him about his drinking ( he has two martinis a night) and she made him go to counseling.
- complains about his diet and fitness
It’s not going to end well
actressesThats very common. And its sad... I've experienced situations very similar than that... Lying about cheating or other thing, the pattern is the same. Try to blame you, guilt inversion and using the vulnerable crying woman to get in your emotions.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
when he ask why she do that, all respect has gone for him, what i see is a MAN seeking closure with a women. SMHNever discuss this stuff with them...they don't care and don't feel guilty about it....just move on
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.