video: The real reason dating is broken

[MatureDJ]

 

[BillyPilgrim]

The real reason dating is broken is because the majority (or at least a significant minority) of women in the SMP got phucked out, the Chad's didn't commit, and now they want their revenge on Mr. Beta. And if the toxic, vengeful women aren't making an effort, then less societal pressure on Stacy to make an effort.

Also, as a lesser reason, expenses. Between the Match Group, gas and the economy, the cost of dating for men isn't as trivial as before.

 

[BaronOfHair]

0:37 One possible explanation that rarely gets mentioned: It's become fashionable to label every interaction with the opposite sex that doesn't go EXACTLY the way we'd prefer "a disaster", "lousy", "catastrophic", etc etc... Same way we now consider hearing words we don't entirely agree with "traumatizing"

Thinking this histrionic obliterates one's prospects for creating inner serenity

 

[obelisk]

The real reason dating is broken is because the majority (or at least a significant minority) of women in the SMP got phucked out, the Chad's didn't commit, and now they want their revenge on Mr. Beta. And if the toxic, vengeful women aren't making an effort, then less societal pressure on Stacy to make an effort.

Also, as a lesser reason, expenses. Between the Match Group, gas and the economy, the cost of dating for men isn't as trivial as before.

Truth bombs!

 

[Solomon]

The real reason dating is broken is because the majority (or at least a significant minority) of women in the SMP got phucked out, the Chad's didn't commit, and now they want their revenge on Mr. Beta. And if the toxic, vengeful women aren't making an effort, then less societal pressure on Stacy to make an effort.

Also, as a lesser reason, expenses. Between the Match Group, gas and the economy, the cost of dating for men isn't as trivial as before.

I don't fully disagree, but men aren't doing themselves any favors by constantly whining online instead of adapting. Fifteen years ago it was understood: if you want the hottest women, you need to be a man of value. Value is subjective, but most guys agree that game, a solid physique, good income, and self-respect all raise it.

I'm seeing it clearly in my friend groups the guys who keep leveling up have way better dating options. The ones who do nothing? Not so much. I cut off a 35-year-old buddy who smokes weed all day, works part-time retail, lives with his parents, and constantly whined on Facebook about women. Sorry, but most of us wouldn't lose sleep over an average-looking woman doing the exact same thing.

Self-awareness and personal responsibility are key on both sides and they're becoming a lost art.

 

[The Duke]

I say it all the time, social skills are necessary and so many people under the age of 35 are failing these days. I see it with the staff when I order food at restaurants, I see it at retail stores. So many are antisocial and have zero idea of how to handle a problem. Its more apparent in larger cities than it is small towns.

People have succumbed to convenience and are wallowing in their own depressing solitude. Instead of going to the neighborhood bar & grill and striking up a conversation with a stranger they use UberEats and stay home binging another show on Netflix as their social skills fade away.

The worst examples seek advice from ChatGPT, have relationships with bots, and onlyfans wh0res.

And then they wonder why they can't connect with someone when they muster up the courage to finally go on a date. Yep, experiences in life really do suck when you are ill-equipped.

I'm not surprised at all that dating is more difficult than ever before for a certain segment of the population. For me, its gotten easier even though my looks have started to fade. But its only easier because I improved myself.

Look at yourself closely, what is it you need to improve to achieve better results?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

The real reason dating is broken is because the majority (or at least a significant minority) of women in the SMP got phucked out, the Chad's didn't commit, and now they want their revenge on Mr. Beta.

That's true for both teams. Men can't get laid so they blame all women. Women get ghosted and blame men. Both teams think their argument is valid and the other team's isn't.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

@OP how about you list the reasons why dating is broken, according to the video. I don't want to have to watch a 30 minute video just to find out some dudes take.

 

[nicksaiz65]

@OP how about you list the reasons why dating is broken, according to the video. I don't want to have to watch a 30 minute video just to find out some dudes take.

Paste the link in Google Gemini, ask it to summarize the video. Easily the best AI for video summarization rn