"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
video: chicks would date tall man making $30K/yr over short man making $100K/yr
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Also, these are meaningless because when a woman starts dating a guy they will find reasons to like them even if they normally view it as something negative.
It's important to a woman until it isn't.
taiyuu_otoko
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Holland's gay. She's a beard.
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He's playing JBW Game.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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He’s got hair and $.He's playing JBW Game.
2 out of 3.
And possibly a fractional extra credit (ie wildcard) point for that jawline.
taiyuu_otoko
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No game, arranged by management.
Pretty common in Hollywood.
She's getting paid to pretend to be his lady likely arranged by his agent to promote a certain image.
Hollywood relationships are often as fake as the characters they play.
Not a legitimate example of genuine relationships.
Yeah that’s what they say. Never go by what a woman says, go by what they do. They might say they want a certain type of guy but then they meet you and it all goes out the window.
my opinion:
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.