"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
video: chicks would date tall man making $30K/yr over short man making $100K/yr
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- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Also, these are meaningless because when a woman starts dating a guy they will find reasons to like them even if they normally view it as something negative.
It's important to a woman until it isn't.
taiyuu_otoko
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Holland's gay. She's a beard.
MatureDJ
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He's playing JBW Game.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MatureDJ
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He’s got hair and $.He's playing JBW Game.
2 out of 3.
And possibly a fractional extra credit (ie wildcard) point for that jawline.
taiyuu_otoko
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No game, arranged by management.
Pretty common in Hollywood.
She's getting paid to pretend to be his lady likely arranged by his agent to promote a certain image.
Hollywood relationships are often as fake as the characters they play.
Not a legitimate example of genuine relationships.
Yeah that’s what they say. Never go by what a woman says, go by what they do. They might say they want a certain type of guy but then they meet you and it all goes out the window.
my opinion:
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.