"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
video: chicks would date tall man making $30K/yr over short man making $100K/yr
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Also, these are meaningless because when a woman starts dating a guy they will find reasons to like them even if they normally view it as something negative.
It's important to a woman until it isn't.
taiyuu_otoko
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Holland's gay. She's a beard.
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He's playing JBW Game.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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He’s got hair and $.He's playing JBW Game.
2 out of 3.
And possibly a fractional extra credit (ie wildcard) point for that jawline.
taiyuu_otoko
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No game, arranged by management.
Pretty common in Hollywood.
She's getting paid to pretend to be his lady likely arranged by his agent to promote a certain image.
Hollywood relationships are often as fake as the characters they play.
Not a legitimate example of genuine relationships.
Yeah that’s what they say. Never go by what a woman says, go by what they do. They might say they want a certain type of guy but then they meet you and it all goes out the window.
my opinion:
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.