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Master Don Juan
Not comparable.
I was going to comment but you said this much better than I could. Goes well beyond any 2021 issues.EyeBRolling, if you cannot accept the unfairness of life, you will never have success at all.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Not comparable.
I was going to comment but you said this much better than I could. Goes well beyond any 2021 issues.EyeBRolling, if you cannot accept the unfairness of life, you will never have success at all.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Thanks for the advice but I’ll never eat shvt that is handed to me. If I get unfairly targetted, I’m going to speak on it. I do not support a meritocracy that doesn’t operate as one.Real men accept that life isn't fair and adjust their actions accordingly. Women and children blame external factors that the world is not fair. In this case, EyeBRolling is saying that the world isn't fair that he gets stopped by police. However, instead of dealing with it like Pandora does, he is crying just like any black activist does.
We teach people to respect us by what we are willing to accept. Hell will freeze over before I “accept” such blatant disrespect.EyeBRolling, if you cannot accept the unfairness of life, you will never have success at all.
You should speak out, if there is blatant disrespect, as anyone should.Thanks for the advice but I’ll never eat shvt that is handed to me. If I get unfairly targetted, I’m going to speak on it. I do not support a meritocracy that doesn’t operate as one.
We teach people to respect us by what we are willing to accept. Hell will freeze over before I “accept” such blatant disrespect.
That is a strawman. You suggested that black people need to just “accept” that police will fvck with us. As a law abiding American citizen, I reject that.You should speak out, if there is blatant disrespect, as anyone should.
But if there isn't, then the only one that will be hurt by your anger is you, as @HaleyBaron said. And especially if you go around actively LOOKING for disrespect.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yes, just like we accept that all women won't fvck us. Or accept that we won't all get the best job. Or accept your neighbor has a hot wife and hot car and you don't. There is always things you have to accept. That's what being a man means. Not a black man, not a white man, not a purple man. Just a man. You are also correlating submission with acceptance. We're not telling you to submit to the cops or any situation that presents itself that you are unhappy about. We're saying you should accept it cause you will always run into things you cannot control. As a man, you are meant to navigate it regardless.That is a strawman. You suggested that black people need to just “accept” that police will fvck with us. As a law abiding American citizen, I reject that.