"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Victimhood is the feminine energy

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Real men accept that life isn't fair and adjust their actions accordingly. Women and children blame external factors that the world is not fair. In this case, EyeBRolling is saying that the world isn't fair that he gets stopped by police. However, instead of dealing with it like Pandora does, he is crying just like any black activist does.
Thanks for the advice but I’ll never eat shvt that is handed to me. If I get unfairly targetted, I’m going to speak on it. I do not support a meritocracy that doesn’t operate as one.

EyeBRolling, if you cannot accept the unfairness of life, you will never have success at all.
We teach people to respect us by what we are willing to accept. Hell will freeze over before I “accept” such blatant disrespect.
 

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Thanks for the advice but I’ll never eat shvt that is handed to me. If I get unfairly targetted, I’m going to speak on it. I do not support a meritocracy that doesn’t operate as one.

We teach people to respect us by what we are willing to accept. Hell will freeze over before I “accept” such blatant disrespect.
You should speak out, if there is blatant disrespect, as anyone should.

But if there isn't, then the only one that will be hurt by your anger is you, as @HaleyBaron said. And especially if you go around actively LOOKING for disrespect.

No one here will ever argue about the reactions to disrespect and disparaging actions/words. The real question(s) are if those things actually happened. Didn't turn out too well for ole Jussie.
 

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Victimhood is a great platform to trick the pleb masses into going along with a narrative..... even if that narrative ultimately will harm them, because simple-minded plebs are so blinded by emotions that they can't engage their deductive reasoning.
 

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You should speak out, if there is blatant disrespect, as anyone should.

But if there isn't, then the only one that will be hurt by your anger is you, as @HaleyBaron said. And especially if you go around actively LOOKING for disrespect.
That is a strawman. You suggested that black people need to just “accept” that police will fvck with us. As a law abiding American citizen, I reject that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That is a strawman. You suggested that black people need to just “accept” that police will fvck with us. As a law abiding American citizen, I reject that.
Yes, just like we accept that all women won't fvck us. Or accept that we won't all get the best job. Or accept your neighbor has a hot wife and hot car and you don't. There is always things you have to accept. That's what being a man means. Not a black man, not a white man, not a purple man. Just a man. You are also correlating submission with acceptance. We're not telling you to submit to the cops or any situation that presents itself that you are unhappy about. We're saying you should accept it cause you will always run into things you cannot control. As a man, you are meant to navigate it regardless.

When sailors sailed across the seas and oceans to find new lands, the waters were rough and the weather dangerous. But they accepted this was the environment, created ships accordingly, and got across to new explorations. If the sailors of the time thought like you do now, they would have just made a simple plank of wood and hope they got to the other side cause "they won't accept the wind and ocean being what it was." But because they did, they made sails that took advantage of the course wind, took advantage of the rough waves, and now they became the kings over what was a problem to them.
 
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