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Not comparable.
I was going to comment but you said this much better than I could. Goes well beyond any 2021 issues.EyeBRolling, if you cannot accept the unfairness of life, you will never have success at all.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Not comparable.
I was going to comment but you said this much better than I could. Goes well beyond any 2021 issues.EyeBRolling, if you cannot accept the unfairness of life, you will never have success at all.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Thanks for the advice but I’ll never eat shvt that is handed to me. If I get unfairly targetted, I’m going to speak on it. I do not support a meritocracy that doesn’t operate as one.Real men accept that life isn't fair and adjust their actions accordingly. Women and children blame external factors that the world is not fair. In this case, EyeBRolling is saying that the world isn't fair that he gets stopped by police. However, instead of dealing with it like Pandora does, he is crying just like any black activist does.
We teach people to respect us by what we are willing to accept. Hell will freeze over before I “accept” such blatant disrespect.EyeBRolling, if you cannot accept the unfairness of life, you will never have success at all.
You should speak out, if there is blatant disrespect, as anyone should.Thanks for the advice but I’ll never eat shvt that is handed to me. If I get unfairly targetted, I’m going to speak on it. I do not support a meritocracy that doesn’t operate as one.
We teach people to respect us by what we are willing to accept. Hell will freeze over before I “accept” such blatant disrespect.
That is a strawman. You suggested that black people need to just “accept” that police will fvck with us. As a law abiding American citizen, I reject that.You should speak out, if there is blatant disrespect, as anyone should.
But if there isn't, then the only one that will be hurt by your anger is you, as @HaleyBaron said. And especially if you go around actively LOOKING for disrespect.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yes, just like we accept that all women won't fvck us. Or accept that we won't all get the best job. Or accept your neighbor has a hot wife and hot car and you don't. There is always things you have to accept. That's what being a man means. Not a black man, not a white man, not a purple man. Just a man. You are also correlating submission with acceptance. We're not telling you to submit to the cops or any situation that presents itself that you are unhappy about. We're saying you should accept it cause you will always run into things you cannot control. As a man, you are meant to navigate it regardless.That is a strawman. You suggested that black people need to just “accept” that police will fvck with us. As a law abiding American citizen, I reject that.