speed dawg
Master Don Juan
I was going to comment but you said this much better than I could. Goes well beyond any 2021 issues.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Victimhood is the feminine energy
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
EyeBRollin
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Thanks for the advice but I’ll never eat shvt that is handed to me. If I get unfairly targetted, I’m going to speak on it. I do not support a meritocracy that doesn’t operate as one.
We teach people to respect us by what we are willing to accept. Hell will freeze over before I “accept” such blatant disrespect.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
You should speak out, if there is blatant disrespect, as anyone should.
But if there isn't, then the only one that will be hurt by your anger is you, as @HaleyBaron said. And especially if you go around actively LOOKING for disrespect.
No one here will ever argue about the reactions to disrespect and disparaging actions/words. The real question(s) are if those things actually happened. Didn't turn out too well for ole Jussie.
Victimhood is a great platform to trick the pleb masses into going along with a narrative..... even if that narrative ultimately will harm them, because simple-minded plebs are so blinded by emotions that they can't engage their deductive reasoning.
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That is a strawman. You suggested that black people need to just “accept” that police will fvck with us. As a law abiding American citizen, I reject that.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Yes, just like we accept that all women won't fvck us. Or accept that we won't all get the best job. Or accept your neighbor has a hot wife and hot car and you don't. There is always things you have to accept. That's what being a man means. Not a black man, not a white man, not a purple man. Just a man. You are also correlating submission with acceptance. We're not telling you to submit to the cops or any situation that presents itself that you are unhappy about. We're saying you should accept it cause you will always run into things you cannot control. As a man, you are meant to navigate it regardless.
When sailors sailed across the seas and oceans to find new lands, the waters were rough and the weather dangerous. But they accepted this was the environment, created ships accordingly, and got across to new explorations. If the sailors of the time thought like you do now, they would have just made a simple plank of wood and hope they got to the other side cause "they won't accept the wind and ocean being what it was." But because they did, they made sails that took advantage of the course wind, took advantage of the rough waves, and now they became the kings over what was a problem to them.