"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hercules

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hi all i met this girl over the internet and she tells me she has a bf who she has been with for some years...anyway i was web cam chating with her and she flirts with me and blows me kisses over the cam and she got undressed infront of the cam, she wants to "hang out" this weekend...so im confused on what to do... is this girl just a tease or she looking to cheat on her bf? can anyone analyse this. thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Grey Fox

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Hard to say, did she toss you a number or knows where you live....and if she can find out where you live what keeps her pissed off bf from tracking you down. It sounds like she is trying to cheat, and she probably wants to get caught to make her bf angry. She's probably a skank if she is willing to take her clothes off to a complete stranger that she just met and has only know for a day or two.

-Grey Fox
 

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this girl told me shes a Virgin and today i talked to ehr again she said she lost it to her bf so what ever she was planign with me i think i got no chance now lol, not sure if i should get rid or her or keep trying... what do u guys think?
 

TesuqueRed

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Originally posted by Hercules
... is this girl just a tease or she looking to cheat on her bf? ...
Yes.



And I agree with Grey--let it go.

If there's confusion here, you're not ready for these games.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ_Dork

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She's teasing dude - don't take those kind of girls seriously.
 

xblitz44x

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Yeah let it go. But keep her around to beat off to when she undresses on the webcam. In fact, record it and post the link here.
 

CLOONEY

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Originally posted by xblitz44x
Yeah let it go. But keep her around to beat off to when she undresses on the webcam. In fact, record it and post the link here.
Can you record it from webcam on MSN? and if you can, how?
 

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yeah lets take a look at this chick
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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