"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hercules

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hi all i met this girl over the internet and she tells me she has a bf who she has been with for some years...anyway i was web cam chating with her and she flirts with me and blows me kisses over the cam and she got undressed infront of the cam, she wants to "hang out" this weekend...so im confused on what to do... is this girl just a tease or she looking to cheat on her bf? can anyone analyse this. thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Grey Fox

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Hard to say, did she toss you a number or knows where you live....and if she can find out where you live what keeps her pissed off bf from tracking you down. It sounds like she is trying to cheat, and she probably wants to get caught to make her bf angry. She's probably a skank if she is willing to take her clothes off to a complete stranger that she just met and has only know for a day or two.

-Grey Fox
 

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this girl told me shes a Virgin and today i talked to ehr again she said she lost it to her bf so what ever she was planign with me i think i got no chance now lol, not sure if i should get rid or her or keep trying... what do u guys think?
 

TesuqueRed

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Originally posted by Hercules
... is this girl just a tease or she looking to cheat on her bf? ...
Yes.



And I agree with Grey--let it go.

If there's confusion here, you're not ready for these games.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJ_Dork

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She's teasing dude - don't take those kind of girls seriously.
 

xblitz44x

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Yeah let it go. But keep her around to beat off to when she undresses on the webcam. In fact, record it and post the link here.
 

CLOONEY

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Originally posted by xblitz44x
Yeah let it go. But keep her around to beat off to when she undresses on the webcam. In fact, record it and post the link here.
Can you record it from webcam on MSN? and if you can, how?
 

Legend

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yeah lets take a look at this chick
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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