hi all i met this girl over the internet and she tells me she has a bf who she has been with for some years...anyway i was web cam chating with her and she flirts with me and blows me kisses over the cam and she got undressed infront of the cam, she wants to "hang out" this weekend...so im confused on what to do... is this girl just a tease or she looking to cheat on her bf? can anyone analyse this. thanks
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Very confused
- Thread starter Hercules
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hard to say, did she toss you a number or knows where you live....and if she can find out where you live what keeps her pissed off bf from tracking you down. It sounds like she is trying to cheat, and she probably wants to get caught to make her bf angry. She's probably a skank if she is willing to take her clothes off to a complete stranger that she just met and has only know for a day or two.
-Grey Fox
-Grey Fox
this girl told me shes a Virgin and today i talked to ehr again she said she lost it to her bf so what ever she was planign with me i think i got no chance now lol, not sure if i should get rid or her or keep trying... what do u guys think?
TesuqueRed
Master Don Juan
Yes.Originally posted by Hercules
... is this girl just a tease or she looking to cheat on her bf? ...
And I agree with Grey--let it go.
If there's confusion here, you're not ready for these games.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Can you record it from webcam on MSN? and if you can, how?Originally posted by xblitz44x
Yeah let it go. But keep her around to beat off to when she undresses on the webcam. In fact, record it and post the link here.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.