“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ice882

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Ok, so there's this girl, we went to the movies, cuddled the whole time, then went to her car and basically dry humped for a while but I had to leave so there was no further escalation.

So I just set something up with her again for tomorrow, but she then she texts me back saying "um yeah we can see a movie or whatever but just as friends sorry if I led you on". WTF?

That's something I totally wasn't expecting. Does anyone have any theory as to why this girl might be acting this way?

Note: We did the dry humping and stuff right before I went away for a month and I just got back now. Could that extended period of separation have done it?

Also, I texted her back saying, "Oh ok. Whatever." and I'm kind of regretting it. Was that an AFC move?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Only one way to find out, Take her out somewhere, Escalate. There is always a chance that she hooked up with a guy while you where away but if your gonna go through with this, You just need to learn to let it go cause you will never know..
 
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Ice882 said:
Note: We did the dry humping and stuff right before I went away for a month and I just got back now. Could that extended period of separation have done it?
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No, actually the dry humping did it.


Cheers!
 
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romangod said:
No, actually the dry humping did it.


Cheers!
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And why is that? Keep in mind we're in high school. First dates don't end with an F-close.
 
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Ice882 said:
And why is that? Keep in mind we're in high school. First dates don't end with an F-close.
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Actually, you didn't get my point. Maybe you moved too fast and she has a little self-respect and dignity. I don't know the girl's background and character but maybe the dry humping on the first date made her feel like a wh0re and she didn't like that feeling. Ergo, she didn't like you. Don't put the cart before the horse. Maybe she wanted to get to know you better before letting you get your rocks off.


Cheers!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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romangod said:
Actually, you didn't get my point. Maybe you moved too fast and she has a little self-respect and dignity. I don't know the girl's background and character but maybe the dry humping on the first date made her feel like a wh0re and she didn't like that feeling. Ergo, she didn't like you. Don't put the cart before the horse. Maybe she wanted to get to know you better before letting you get your rocks off.


Cheers!
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Oh, okay okay. I see what you're saying. However, we have known each other for a while--but yeah, maybe she felt bad about getting that close on a first date.

I'm taking her out again tomorrow... should I not try anything because of that?
 
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Note: We did the dry humping and stuff right before I went away for a month and I just got back now. Could that extended period of separation have done it
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Sure its a possibility.

Who knows where her interest levels were before you left, but now they are all gone. She probably met some guy while you were away for a month and he fvcked her.

NEXT!!!
 
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I'm taking her out again tomorrow... should I not try anything because of that?
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Is it a date or are you now just friends?


Cheers!
 
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If you're already taking her out then might as well give it another shot. Just don't pay for her, as you're supposed to be "friends" now.
 
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romangod said:
Is it a date or are you now just friends?


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Yeah--we're technically friends right now. But I think I'll have to judge for myself tomorrow--basically following Jitterbug's plan.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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And can I just say that girls are retarded? No logic. Fickle retards. Usually spoiled.

But whatever. I'm not gonna stop gaming.
 
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Ice882 said:
Ok, so there's this girl, we went to the movies, cuddled the whole time, then went to her car and basically dry humped for a while but I had to leave so there was no further escalation.

So I just set something up with her again for tomorrow, but she then she texts me back saying "um yeah we can see a movie or whatever but just as friends sorry if I led you on". WTF?

That's something I totally wasn't expecting. Does anyone have any theory as to why this girl might be acting this way?

Note: We did the dry humping and stuff right before I went away for a month and I just got back now. Could that extended period of separation have done it?

Also, I texted her back saying, "Oh ok. Whatever." and I'm kind of regretting it. Was that an AFC move?
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You went too far with her on the first date. You never should get to the point of "dry humping" with her until you're ready to sleep with her. She got buyer's remorse.
 
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