Very Confused As To What I Did Wrong

[Ice882]

Ok, so there's this girl, we went to the movies, cuddled the whole time, then went to her car and basically dry humped for a while but I had to leave so there was no further escalation.

So I just set something up with her again for tomorrow, but she then she texts me back saying "um yeah we can see a movie or whatever but just as friends sorry if I led you on". WTF?

That's something I totally wasn't expecting. Does anyone have any theory as to why this girl might be acting this way?

Note: We did the dry humping and stuff right before I went away for a month and I just got back now. Could that extended period of separation have done it?

Also, I texted her back saying, "Oh ok. Whatever." and I'm kind of regretting it. Was that an AFC move?

 

[frisco]

Only one way to find out, Take her out somewhere, Escalate. There is always a chance that she hooked up with a guy while you where away but if your gonna go through with this, You just need to learn to let it go cause you will never know..

 

[romangod]

Note: We did the dry humping and stuff right before I went away for a month and I just got back now. Could that extended period of separation have done it?

No, actually the dry humping did it.


Cheers!

 

[Ice882]

No, actually the dry humping did it.


Cheers!

And why is that? Keep in mind we're in high school. First dates don't end with an F-close.

 

[romangod]

And why is that? Keep in mind we're in high school. First dates don't end with an F-close.

Actually, you didn't get my point. Maybe you moved too fast and she has a little self-respect and dignity. I don't know the girl's background and character but maybe the dry humping on the first date made her feel like a wh0re and she didn't like that feeling. Ergo, she didn't like you. Don't put the cart before the horse. Maybe she wanted to get to know you better before letting you get your rocks off.


Cheers!

 

[Ice882]

Actually, you didn't get my point. Maybe you moved too fast and she has a little self-respect and dignity. I don't know the girl's background and character but maybe the dry humping on the first date made her feel like a wh0re and she didn't like that feeling. Ergo, she didn't like you. Don't put the cart before the horse. Maybe she wanted to get to know you better before letting you get your rocks off.


Cheers!

Oh, okay okay. I see what you're saying. However, we have known each other for a while--but yeah, maybe she felt bad about getting that close on a first date.

I'm taking her out again tomorrow... should I not try anything because of that?

 

[DJDamage]

Note: We did the dry humping and stuff right before I went away for a month and I just got back now. Could that extended period of separation have done it

Sure its a possibility.

Who knows where her interest levels were before you left, but now they are all gone. She probably met some guy while you were away for a month and he fvcked her.

NEXT!!!

 

[romangod]

I'm taking her out again tomorrow... should I not try anything because of that?

Is it a date or are you now just friends?


Cheers!

 

[Jitterbug]

If you're already taking her out then might as well give it another shot. Just don't pay for her, as you're supposed to be "friends" now.

 

[Ice882]

Is it a date or are you now just friends?


Cheers!

Yeah--we're technically friends right now. But I think I'll have to judge for myself tomorrow--basically following Jitterbug's plan.

 

[Ice882]

And can I just say that girls are retarded? No logic. Fickle retards. Usually spoiled.

But whatever. I'm not gonna stop gaming.

 

[Craig Reeves]

Ok, so there's this girl, we went to the movies, cuddled the whole time, then went to her car and basically dry humped for a while but I had to leave so there was no further escalation.

So I just set something up with her again for tomorrow, but she then she texts me back saying "um yeah we can see a movie or whatever but just as friends sorry if I led you on". WTF?

That's something I totally wasn't expecting. Does anyone have any theory as to why this girl might be acting this way?

Note: We did the dry humping and stuff right before I went away for a month and I just got back now. Could that extended period of separation have done it?

Also, I texted her back saying, "Oh ok. Whatever." and I'm kind of regretting it. Was that an AFC move?

You went too far with her on the first date. You never should get to the point of "dry humping" with her until you're ready to sleep with her. She got buyer's remorse.