"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Venting my frustration..

-Gripz-

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As the title suggests I just want to vent a little bit, maybe I will feel better. I'm a young guy 21 year old, but I just do not enjoy my life right now. The only thing that even remotely makes me happy is going to the gym and lifting weights. I'm in college right now hoping to go to a 4 year university, but in this town I'm practically in a rut. Living here, I've moved in with my grandmother (not my choice) and everyday I have to deal with children everyday annoying the sh!t out of me at home. I'm still a damn virgin even though I'm in great shape and moderately good looking. I can't get with women, having nothing to my name and barley having any clothes and no car does not help me. I don't no where I'm going with this, but I just need a big change in my life right now... 3 years is too long to feel like this.

Apologize if this is too long.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RedZone

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Things always get better and your still young. Stick with it. I'm 26 and I still struggle at times. I didn't even have a full time job until recently...At times it was hard, but you can do it.
 

InnerHappiness

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-Get a job
-Get out of your grandma's house
-Get a car
-Get style

I think you already knew the answer.
 

Jair213

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in the same position. i do have a car though just need to pay tickets to get my license back.
 
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