"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Venting my frustration..

-Gripz-

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As the title suggests I just want to vent a little bit, maybe I will feel better. I'm a young guy 21 year old, but I just do not enjoy my life right now. The only thing that even remotely makes me happy is going to the gym and lifting weights. I'm in college right now hoping to go to a 4 year university, but in this town I'm practically in a rut. Living here, I've moved in with my grandmother (not my choice) and everyday I have to deal with children everyday annoying the sh!t out of me at home. I'm still a damn virgin even though I'm in great shape and moderately good looking. I can't get with women, having nothing to my name and barley having any clothes and no car does not help me. I don't no where I'm going with this, but I just need a big change in my life right now... 3 years is too long to feel like this.

Apologize if this is too long.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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RedZone

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Things always get better and your still young. Stick with it. I'm 26 and I still struggle at times. I didn't even have a full time job until recently...At times it was hard, but you can do it.
 

InnerHappiness

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-Get a job
-Get out of your grandma's house
-Get a car
-Get style

I think you already knew the answer.
 

Jair213

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in the same position. i do have a car though just need to pay tickets to get my license back.
 
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