"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Venting my frustration..

-Gripz-

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As the title suggests I just want to vent a little bit, maybe I will feel better. I'm a young guy 21 year old, but I just do not enjoy my life right now. The only thing that even remotely makes me happy is going to the gym and lifting weights. I'm in college right now hoping to go to a 4 year university, but in this town I'm practically in a rut. Living here, I've moved in with my grandmother (not my choice) and everyday I have to deal with children everyday annoying the sh!t out of me at home. I'm still a damn virgin even though I'm in great shape and moderately good looking. I can't get with women, having nothing to my name and barley having any clothes and no car does not help me. I don't no where I'm going with this, but I just need a big change in my life right now... 3 years is too long to feel like this.

Apologize if this is too long.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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RedZone

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Things always get better and your still young. Stick with it. I'm 26 and I still struggle at times. I didn't even have a full time job until recently...At times it was hard, but you can do it.
 

InnerHappiness

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-Get a job
-Get out of your grandma's house
-Get a car
-Get style

I think you already knew the answer.
 

Jair213

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in the same position. i do have a car though just need to pay tickets to get my license back.
 
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