Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Valentines present

Lion

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Hi all,

My gf and I had a great valentines day, simply I cooked her a meal and we went for a walk.
I gave her a rose and some scented candles (and the prize myself of course :D ) but she gave me some cologne which cost about 4 times the gifts I got her! :)

I hadn't felt weird about it until tonight, I noticed on her facebook profile, someone had given her a private gift for valentines- meaning it doesn't say who its from. All her other gifts except mine are public. Should I just ignore this unless she mentions it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Andromax

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yea
 

Lion

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I'd REALLY appreciate some sound advice guys.

My LTR gf (of over a year) is cooking me a meal tonight and this silly facebookk private valentines gift thing is on my mind.

She is extremely busy with studying for a higher degree.
I was going to give her the same gift but I've refrained since discovering it on the weekend after our last date.
 

Infamous J

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I'm sure it's eating at you a bit but honestly you're best just letting it go. There's a 99% chance it's some afc that threw it her way hoping to get a bite. Your girlfriend is getting hit on when you're not around, this really is no different.

If you bring it up it just makes you seem insecure. If it escalates significantly then I'd look into it, but for now just fahgedaboudit!
 
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