"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi all,

My gf and I had a great valentines day, simply I cooked her a meal and we went for a walk.
I gave her a rose and some scented candles (and the prize myself of course :D ) but she gave me some cologne which cost about 4 times the gifts I got her! :)

I hadn't felt weird about it until tonight, I noticed on her facebook profile, someone had given her a private gift for valentines- meaning it doesn't say who its from. All her other gifts except mine are public. Should I just ignore this unless she mentions it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yea
 
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I'd REALLY appreciate some sound advice guys.

My LTR gf (of over a year) is cooking me a meal tonight and this silly facebookk private valentines gift thing is on my mind.

She is extremely busy with studying for a higher degree.
I was going to give her the same gift but I've refrained since discovering it on the weekend after our last date.
 
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I'm sure it's eating at you a bit but honestly you're best just letting it go. There's a 99% chance it's some afc that threw it her way hoping to get a bite. Your girlfriend is getting hit on when you're not around, this really is no different.

If you bring it up it just makes you seem insecure. If it escalates significantly then I'd look into it, but for now just fahgedaboudit!
 
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