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I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Hi all,

My gf and I had a great valentines day, simply I cooked her a meal and we went for a walk.
I gave her a rose and some scented candles (and the prize myself of course :D ) but she gave me some cologne which cost about 4 times the gifts I got her! :)

I hadn't felt weird about it until tonight, I noticed on her facebook profile, someone had given her a private gift for valentines- meaning it doesn't say who its from. All her other gifts except mine are public. Should I just ignore this unless she mentions it?
 

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I'd REALLY appreciate some sound advice guys.

My LTR gf (of over a year) is cooking me a meal tonight and this silly facebookk private valentines gift thing is on my mind.

She is extremely busy with studying for a higher degree.
I was going to give her the same gift but I've refrained since discovering it on the weekend after our last date.
 
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I'm sure it's eating at you a bit but honestly you're best just letting it go. There's a 99% chance it's some afc that threw it her way hoping to get a bite. Your girlfriend is getting hit on when you're not around, this really is no different.

If you bring it up it just makes you seem insecure. If it escalates significantly then I'd look into it, but for now just fahgedaboudit!
 
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