"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Valentines present

Lion

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Hi all,

My gf and I had a great valentines day, simply I cooked her a meal and we went for a walk.
I gave her a rose and some scented candles (and the prize myself of course :D ) but she gave me some cologne which cost about 4 times the gifts I got her! :)

I hadn't felt weird about it until tonight, I noticed on her facebook profile, someone had given her a private gift for valentines- meaning it doesn't say who its from. All her other gifts except mine are public. Should I just ignore this unless she mentions it?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Andromax

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yea
 

Lion

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I'd REALLY appreciate some sound advice guys.

My LTR gf (of over a year) is cooking me a meal tonight and this silly facebookk private valentines gift thing is on my mind.

She is extremely busy with studying for a higher degree.
I was going to give her the same gift but I've refrained since discovering it on the weekend after our last date.
 

Infamous J

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I'm sure it's eating at you a bit but honestly you're best just letting it go. There's a 99% chance it's some afc that threw it her way hoping to get a bite. Your girlfriend is getting hit on when you're not around, this really is no different.

If you bring it up it just makes you seem insecure. If it escalates significantly then I'd look into it, but for now just fahgedaboudit!
 
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