"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Valentines for chumps or Dj's?

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So I have this FB Ive been see'in were not dating and she's made it clear she doesnt want that....So Should I gift her or anything special for V-day....Or anyone for that matter or is this V-day really AFC day?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Hi!

If she doesn´t want to date you (or at best, if she is undecided), the last this you should do is to give her gifts. But the LAST of LAST of LAST of things you should do is to give her a gift on V-day.

Do not persue her, or try to impress her. Just try to interest her. Don´t be to available and don´t you ever, ever give her all the power.

And keep in mind, if she doesn´t want, there are thousands of women as good or better that her.


Take care, dude.
 
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OamImrsNemo said:
So I have this FB Ive been see'in were not dating and she's made it clear she doesnt want that....So Should I gift her or anything special for V-day....Or anyone for that matter or is this V-day really AFC day?
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When I have a girlfriend that I value enough to call a "girlfriend," I have no problem doing nice things on Valentine's Day.

In your situation, I can't imagine any possible reason why you'd want to get this girl anything for Valentine's. If she wants to be in a V-day category, she needs to step up her game for you.
 
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No gift is better than a chump gift. However, it's also boring.

Buy her some cheap lingerie to wear for you. Check the clearance stuff at snaz75.com and also look on amazon. Avoid Frederick's, Victoria's Secret, and porno stores due to ridiculous prices.

Note to other guys who might try this - it only works if you are already fvcking the girl, preferably several times. If you have not already had sex, it will come off as creepy and backfire. This is a relationship technique and not a seduction technique.
 
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An FB once gave me a coupon book from an Adult store with coupons for all kinds of stuff, from backrubs to BJ's. She tore out the anal, beforehand though. Something like that would be good, and can be played off as a joke if she isnt ok with it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thanks for all the advice...I think Ill stick with not even mentioning it....If she wants to be special she needs to step up her game with me ....
 
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horaholic said:
An FB once gave me a coupon book from an Adult store with coupons for all kinds of stuff, from backrubs to BJ's. She tore out the anal, beforehand though. Something like that would be good, and can be played off as a joke if she isnt ok with it.
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What a b*tch!

My ex used to tease me about anal because I had qualms about it. Being the AFC that I am, I eventually budged and since liked it, a TON. Then it was me pushing for it whenever I could. She wouldn't let me all the time, but once in a while, she'd let me get my way. She even gave me a handmade coupon for it. I still have it, hoping to spring it out of nowhere one of these days. Its very unlikely, as she won't even give me head anymore (we're FBs, sorta), but hey, I can dream :S
 
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he even gave me a handmade coupon for it. I still have it, hoping to spring it out of nowhere one of these days. Its very unlikely, as she won't even give me head anymore (we're FBs, sorta), but hey, I can dream :S
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lol nice
 
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Homemade crotchless panties, or an orgasm, would make a good gift in this situation.

I wouldn't go overboard with flowers/chocolate/etc.
 
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Give her a Hot C*ck Sandwich!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bible_Belt said:
No gift is better than a chump gift. However, it's also boring.

Buy her some cheap lingerie to wear for you. Check the clearance stuff at snaz75.com and also look on amazon. Avoid Frederick's, Victoria's Secret, and porno stores due to ridiculous prices.

Note to other guys who might try this - it only works if you are already fvcking the girl, preferably several times. If you have not already had sex, it will come off as creepy and backfire. This is a relationship technique and not a seduction technique.
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Why is a cute Gift "boring"? Chicks dig it.

Must everything be about sex sex sex?
 
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