"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Valentines Day

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BJP1991

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Hey Everyone,

What do you single guys do during Valentine’s Day? I’ve been seeing a few girls the last couple months and one of them I have seen once a week for nearly a month. We sometimes go out, sometimes stay in, but always end up hooking up multiple times every time.

The other night I took her on more of a formal “date”, with me buying her dinner at a decent place before we went back to hers for movies etc (more sex, basically). I’d like to keep seeing her on a regular basis, and she’s the type that I’m into (makes me forget about every other girl I have in my rotation).

Do you fellas like to actually DO something on Valentines Day with someone who is still relatively new? Or just ignore it all together and see them whenever it makes sense for your schedule?

I was thinking about calling her on Valentines Day (which is a Thursday) in the evening to ask her out again for the coming weekend, and casually wish her a Happy Valentines day at the same time. What do you think?

Cheers!
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do whatever you want to do on Valentine’s Day. It’s just another day of the week. But do realize she will expect something on the day. Chill at home but get her a bag of chocolates and call it a day. Act a little romantic and in the spirit and you’ll be fine.
 
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I made this multipe times, chicks love this:

 
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One month in? If it’s a woman who has had high interest and hasn’t given you any problems then I think it’s okay to ask her out. If she has been difficult at times and hasn’t shown high interest then the last thing you want to do is give her the the I want to be your boyfriend vibe. She will run.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She isn't your girlfriend so there is nothing you "need" to do for her
 
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I do the same stuff I do any other weekday. I could care less about the holiday. Just another Thursday to me.
 
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