"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BJP1991

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Hey Everyone,

What do you single guys do during Valentine’s Day? I’ve been seeing a few girls the last couple months and one of them I have seen once a week for nearly a month. We sometimes go out, sometimes stay in, but always end up hooking up multiple times every time.

The other night I took her on more of a formal “date”, with me buying her dinner at a decent place before we went back to hers for movies etc (more sex, basically). I’d like to keep seeing her on a regular basis, and she’s the type that I’m into (makes me forget about every other girl I have in my rotation).

Do you fellas like to actually DO something on Valentines Day with someone who is still relatively new? Or just ignore it all together and see them whenever it makes sense for your schedule?

I was thinking about calling her on Valentines Day (which is a Thursday) in the evening to ask her out again for the coming weekend, and casually wish her a Happy Valentines day at the same time. What do you think?

Cheers!
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do whatever you want to do on Valentine’s Day. It’s just another day of the week. But do realize she will expect something on the day. Chill at home but get her a bag of chocolates and call it a day. Act a little romantic and in the spirit and you’ll be fine.
 
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I made this multipe times, chicks love this:

 
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One month in? If it’s a woman who has had high interest and hasn’t given you any problems then I think it’s okay to ask her out. If she has been difficult at times and hasn’t shown high interest then the last thing you want to do is give her the the I want to be your boyfriend vibe. She will run.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She isn't your girlfriend so there is nothing you "need" to do for her
 
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I do the same stuff I do any other weekday. I could care less about the holiday. Just another Thursday to me.
 
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