"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Valentine's Day

Romules

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Hey guys, I'm in need for some advice here.

I'm dating this girl, been out with her 2 times now, last time was tonight. No kiss close yet, but good kino going on.

So basically my question is this: We all know how you have to wait a while before you call her back, but I'm kind of confused because of V-Day. This thing's coming, and fast. Wednesday.

Usually I set dates a couple of days before, so basically I can't wait until Tuesday and ask her to do something on V-Day, so what would be a safe bet? I can't call her tomorrow, it's too early, especially since our date was tonight (sunday.)

Should I just call her, wish her a happy V-Day, and plan a date then? Or just ignore V-Day, and wait for her to call back.

Any tips is appreciated, I'm kind of stuck here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Faca

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Don't know how old she is, but i can tell you that chicks younger then 23y are desperate for dates around this period.

I would just ingore it, but you can date her.. but just don't buy any valentines day gifts or anything. Only in LTR you are allowed to buy her a gift.
 

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Romules said:
Hey guys, I'm in need for some advice here.

I'm dating this girl, been out with her 2 times now, last time was tonight. No kiss close yet, but good kino going on.

So basically my question is this: We all know how you have to wait a while before you call her back, but I'm kind of confused because of V-Day. This thing's coming, and fast. Wednesday.

Usually I set dates a couple of days before, so basically I can't wait until Tuesday and ask her to do something on V-Day, so what would be a safe bet? I can't call her tomorrow, it's too early, especially since our date was tonight (sunday.)

Should I just call her, wish her a happy V-Day, and plan a date then? Or just ignore V-Day, and wait for her to call back.

Any tips is appreciated, I'm kind of stuck here.
I'm more worried about the fact that this is your second date and you still haven't kissed closed.

You'd be suprised how quick women lose interest in the slow to act.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mind_Body_Soul

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I'm more worried about the fact that this is your second date and you still haven't kissed closed.

You'd be suprised how quick women lose interest in the slow to act.
I agree. Getting sexual ASAP is crucial to maintaining interest initially.
 

amoka

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Mind_Body_Soul said:
I agree. Getting sexual ASAP is crucial to maintaining interest initially.
My problem is I go too fast. But was able to kiss close though.
 
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