"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey guys, I'm in need for some advice here.

I'm dating this girl, been out with her 2 times now, last time was tonight. No kiss close yet, but good kino going on.

So basically my question is this: We all know how you have to wait a while before you call her back, but I'm kind of confused because of V-Day. This thing's coming, and fast. Wednesday.

Usually I set dates a couple of days before, so basically I can't wait until Tuesday and ask her to do something on V-Day, so what would be a safe bet? I can't call her tomorrow, it's too early, especially since our date was tonight (sunday.)

Should I just call her, wish her a happy V-Day, and plan a date then? Or just ignore V-Day, and wait for her to call back.

Any tips is appreciated, I'm kind of stuck here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't know how old she is, but i can tell you that chicks younger then 23y are desperate for dates around this period.

I would just ingore it, but you can date her.. but just don't buy any valentines day gifts or anything. Only in LTR you are allowed to buy her a gift.
 
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Romules said:
Hey guys, I'm in need for some advice here.

I'm dating this girl, been out with her 2 times now, last time was tonight. No kiss close yet, but good kino going on.

So basically my question is this: We all know how you have to wait a while before you call her back, but I'm kind of confused because of V-Day. This thing's coming, and fast. Wednesday.

Usually I set dates a couple of days before, so basically I can't wait until Tuesday and ask her to do something on V-Day, so what would be a safe bet? I can't call her tomorrow, it's too early, especially since our date was tonight (sunday.)

Should I just call her, wish her a happy V-Day, and plan a date then? Or just ignore V-Day, and wait for her to call back.

Any tips is appreciated, I'm kind of stuck here.
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I'm more worried about the fact that this is your second date and you still haven't kissed closed.

You'd be suprised how quick women lose interest in the slow to act.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm more worried about the fact that this is your second date and you still haven't kissed closed.

You'd be suprised how quick women lose interest in the slow to act.
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I agree. Getting sexual ASAP is crucial to maintaining interest initially.
 
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Mind_Body_Soul said:
I agree. Getting sexual ASAP is crucial to maintaining interest initially.
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My problem is I go too fast. But was able to kiss close though.
 
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