"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Valentine's Day

Romules

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Hey guys, I'm in need for some advice here.

I'm dating this girl, been out with her 2 times now, last time was tonight. No kiss close yet, but good kino going on.

So basically my question is this: We all know how you have to wait a while before you call her back, but I'm kind of confused because of V-Day. This thing's coming, and fast. Wednesday.

Usually I set dates a couple of days before, so basically I can't wait until Tuesday and ask her to do something on V-Day, so what would be a safe bet? I can't call her tomorrow, it's too early, especially since our date was tonight (sunday.)

Should I just call her, wish her a happy V-Day, and plan a date then? Or just ignore V-Day, and wait for her to call back.

Any tips is appreciated, I'm kind of stuck here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Faca

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Don't know how old she is, but i can tell you that chicks younger then 23y are desperate for dates around this period.

I would just ingore it, but you can date her.. but just don't buy any valentines day gifts or anything. Only in LTR you are allowed to buy her a gift.
 

Lust

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Romules said:
Hey guys, I'm in need for some advice here.

I'm dating this girl, been out with her 2 times now, last time was tonight. No kiss close yet, but good kino going on.

So basically my question is this: We all know how you have to wait a while before you call her back, but I'm kind of confused because of V-Day. This thing's coming, and fast. Wednesday.

Usually I set dates a couple of days before, so basically I can't wait until Tuesday and ask her to do something on V-Day, so what would be a safe bet? I can't call her tomorrow, it's too early, especially since our date was tonight (sunday.)

Should I just call her, wish her a happy V-Day, and plan a date then? Or just ignore V-Day, and wait for her to call back.

Any tips is appreciated, I'm kind of stuck here.
I'm more worried about the fact that this is your second date and you still haven't kissed closed.

You'd be suprised how quick women lose interest in the slow to act.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mind_Body_Soul

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I'm more worried about the fact that this is your second date and you still haven't kissed closed.

You'd be suprised how quick women lose interest in the slow to act.
I agree. Getting sexual ASAP is crucial to maintaining interest initially.
 

amoka

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Mind_Body_Soul said:
I agree. Getting sexual ASAP is crucial to maintaining interest initially.
My problem is I go too fast. But was able to kiss close though.
 
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