"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Valentine's Day

Romules

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Hey guys, I'm in need for some advice here.

I'm dating this girl, been out with her 2 times now, last time was tonight. No kiss close yet, but good kino going on.

So basically my question is this: We all know how you have to wait a while before you call her back, but I'm kind of confused because of V-Day. This thing's coming, and fast. Wednesday.

Usually I set dates a couple of days before, so basically I can't wait until Tuesday and ask her to do something on V-Day, so what would be a safe bet? I can't call her tomorrow, it's too early, especially since our date was tonight (sunday.)

Should I just call her, wish her a happy V-Day, and plan a date then? Or just ignore V-Day, and wait for her to call back.

Any tips is appreciated, I'm kind of stuck here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Faca

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Don't know how old she is, but i can tell you that chicks younger then 23y are desperate for dates around this period.

I would just ingore it, but you can date her.. but just don't buy any valentines day gifts or anything. Only in LTR you are allowed to buy her a gift.
 

Lust

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Romules said:
Hey guys, I'm in need for some advice here.

I'm dating this girl, been out with her 2 times now, last time was tonight. No kiss close yet, but good kino going on.

So basically my question is this: We all know how you have to wait a while before you call her back, but I'm kind of confused because of V-Day. This thing's coming, and fast. Wednesday.

Usually I set dates a couple of days before, so basically I can't wait until Tuesday and ask her to do something on V-Day, so what would be a safe bet? I can't call her tomorrow, it's too early, especially since our date was tonight (sunday.)

Should I just call her, wish her a happy V-Day, and plan a date then? Or just ignore V-Day, and wait for her to call back.

Any tips is appreciated, I'm kind of stuck here.
I'm more worried about the fact that this is your second date and you still haven't kissed closed.

You'd be suprised how quick women lose interest in the slow to act.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm more worried about the fact that this is your second date and you still haven't kissed closed.

You'd be suprised how quick women lose interest in the slow to act.
I agree. Getting sexual ASAP is crucial to maintaining interest initially.
 

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Mind_Body_Soul said:
I agree. Getting sexual ASAP is crucial to maintaining interest initially.
My problem is I go too fast. But was able to kiss close though.
 
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