"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys, I'm in need for some advice here.

I'm dating this girl, been out with her 2 times now, last time was tonight. No kiss close yet, but good kino going on.

So basically my question is this: We all know how you have to wait a while before you call her back, but I'm kind of confused because of V-Day. This thing's coming, and fast. Wednesday.

Usually I set dates a couple of days before, so basically I can't wait until Tuesday and ask her to do something on V-Day, so what would be a safe bet? I can't call her tomorrow, it's too early, especially since our date was tonight (sunday.)

Should I just call her, wish her a happy V-Day, and plan a date then? Or just ignore V-Day, and wait for her to call back.

Any tips is appreciated, I'm kind of stuck here.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't know how old she is, but i can tell you that chicks younger then 23y are desperate for dates around this period.

I would just ingore it, but you can date her.. but just don't buy any valentines day gifts or anything. Only in LTR you are allowed to buy her a gift.
 
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Romules said:
Hey guys, I'm in need for some advice here.

I'm dating this girl, been out with her 2 times now, last time was tonight. No kiss close yet, but good kino going on.

So basically my question is this: We all know how you have to wait a while before you call her back, but I'm kind of confused because of V-Day. This thing's coming, and fast. Wednesday.

Usually I set dates a couple of days before, so basically I can't wait until Tuesday and ask her to do something on V-Day, so what would be a safe bet? I can't call her tomorrow, it's too early, especially since our date was tonight (sunday.)

Should I just call her, wish her a happy V-Day, and plan a date then? Or just ignore V-Day, and wait for her to call back.

Any tips is appreciated, I'm kind of stuck here.
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I'm more worried about the fact that this is your second date and you still haven't kissed closed.

You'd be suprised how quick women lose interest in the slow to act.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm more worried about the fact that this is your second date and you still haven't kissed closed.

You'd be suprised how quick women lose interest in the slow to act.
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I agree. Getting sexual ASAP is crucial to maintaining interest initially.
 
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Mind_Body_Soul said:
I agree. Getting sexual ASAP is crucial to maintaining interest initially.
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My problem is I go too fast. But was able to kiss close though.
 
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