"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Valentine's Day, plus plates

AllDay85

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I figured I'd go out with my main chick for Valentines and blow off the other plates. We're not dating but we've been seeing/sleeping with each other about four months now.

What do you guys think about getting her chocolates or something like that?

Obviously jewelry or anything sappy is out of the question.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Desdinova

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I tell all my women that I don't celebrate Valentine's Day because it's too commercial. Do something with her, maybe get her a card that basically says "you're awesome", and she'll be fine.
 

Yewki

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I tell all my women that I don't celebrate Valentine's Day because it's too commercial. Do something with her, maybe get her a card that basically says "you're awesome", and she'll be fine.
Doesn't celebrate Valentines Day... makes a point to do something and gets her a card ;)
 

Desdinova

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Doesn't celebrate Valentines Day... makes a point to do something and gets her a card ;)
That's to get out of buying fvcking chocolates, flowers, and all that other bull5hit. You still have to do something with her to avoid making her feel left out amongst her gfs, but you don't want to be declaring your love with all the junk that the AFCs shower their women with.
 

Bible_Belt

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A gift is like taking a girl out to eat. I'll do it on rare occasion when it is somewhere I want to go, when I want to go there. So when you give a gift, make it something that you have experienced before and enjoy, and you want to share with her. Or make it something you would like the two of you to experience together. Pick out some chocolate that sounds good to you: http://www.thefiftybest.com/food/best_chocolate/ and a bottle of wine you think you'd enjoy. Tell her you bought her something great, but make her share it with you, largely under the pretense of it being something you wanted to do anyway.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Scaramouche

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Dear All Day,
Never just "Blow off" Plates...Keep them around for when you need them...For this one
A Card is certainly in order...fill it with imaginative prose derived on line...Offer her your undying love...Keep the model for future use...Write a similar amended card to all the others too...Don't spend Money on her,or them...A box of Chockies...A shared bottle of Wine..Never spoil them....Whatever you do,don't ditch your other loves...They give emotional stability,so why bruise their little egos?
 
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