“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Valentine's Day, plus plates

AllDay85

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I figured I'd go out with my main chick for Valentines and blow off the other plates. We're not dating but we've been seeing/sleeping with each other about four months now.

What do you guys think about getting her chocolates or something like that?

Obviously jewelry or anything sappy is out of the question.
 

Desdinova

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I tell all my women that I don't celebrate Valentine's Day because it's too commercial. Do something with her, maybe get her a card that basically says "you're awesome", and she'll be fine.
 

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I tell all my women that I don't celebrate Valentine's Day because it's too commercial. Do something with her, maybe get her a card that basically says "you're awesome", and she'll be fine.
Doesn't celebrate Valentines Day... makes a point to do something and gets her a card ;)
 

Desdinova

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Doesn't celebrate Valentines Day... makes a point to do something and gets her a card ;)
That's to get out of buying fvcking chocolates, flowers, and all that other bull5hit. You still have to do something with her to avoid making her feel left out amongst her gfs, but you don't want to be declaring your love with all the junk that the AFCs shower their women with.
 

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A gift is like taking a girl out to eat. I'll do it on rare occasion when it is somewhere I want to go, when I want to go there. So when you give a gift, make it something that you have experienced before and enjoy, and you want to share with her. Or make it something you would like the two of you to experience together. Pick out some chocolate that sounds good to you: http://www.thefiftybest.com/food/best_chocolate/ and a bottle of wine you think you'd enjoy. Tell her you bought her something great, but make her share it with you, largely under the pretense of it being something you wanted to do anyway.
 

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Dear All Day,
Never just "Blow off" Plates...Keep them around for when you need them...For this one
A Card is certainly in order...fill it with imaginative prose derived on line...Offer her your undying love...Keep the model for future use...Write a similar amended card to all the others too...Don't spend Money on her,or them...A box of Chockies...A shared bottle of Wine..Never spoil them....Whatever you do,don't ditch your other loves...They give emotional stability,so why bruise their little egos?
 
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